"Debemos permitir que las fantasías nos enseñen verdades importantes sobre nuestros deseos."

Everyone has dreams and fantasies. They’re those wild, often whimsical ideas that pop into your head, seemingly out of nowhere. But have you ever considered that these fantasies might be trying to tell you something important? They could be revealing your deepest desires, ones you might not even be aware of yet.

Think back to when you were a kid. Did you ever pretend to be a superhero, saving the world from danger? As innocent as that might seem, it could have been a signal of your desire to help others, to be someone others rely on. Fantasies aren't just flights of fancy—they're windows into what we truly want.

Take J.K. Rowling, for example. Before she became the famous author of the Harry Potter series, she was just another person with a head full of dreams. She imagined a world of wizards, magic, and adventure. Through her writing, she not only entertained millions but also expressed her own desires for a world where good triumphs over evil, where friendships are loyal, and where even the most unlikely person can be a hero. Her fantasies about magic and heroism connected deeply with readers because they spoke to universal desires for courage, belonging, and justice.

So how can you tap into this wisdom? First, don't dismiss your daydreams as mere distractions. Next time you find yourself lost in thought about something fantastical, pause. Ask yourself what these dreams might be revealing about your deepest wishes. Maybe you fantasize about quitting your job and traveling the world. This could indicate a desire for freedom and adventure—or perhaps a need to escape from something in your current life.

Here's a little exercise: try journaling your fantasies. Write them down in vivid detail. Then, look for common themes. You might notice patterns that point to what you truly value and desire. Maybe it’s love, recognition, creativity, or peace. Once you identify these core desires, think about practical steps you can take to incorporate them into your reality. If you find you crave creativity, perhaps take up a new hobby or project that allows for artistic expression.

Imagine Sarah, a marketing manager in her mid-thirties. She's good at her job, but she often daydreams about running her own bakery. She fantasizes about creating beautiful cakes and seeing the joy on her customers' faces. At first, she dismisses these thoughts as impractical—after all, she's invested years into her career. But the fantasies persist. Finally, she starts a small side business, baking on weekends. Over time, she realizes that her fantasies were highlighting her true passion for creating and making people happy. Eventually, Sarah transitions to baking full-time and finds deep fulfillment in her work.

Your fantasies are more than just idle thoughts. They’re clues, nudging you towards what will truly make you happy. Embrace them. Let them guide you to understand your real desires. You never know—it might just lead you to a life more aligned with who you truly are. And honestly, isn’t that what we’re all searching for?