“We are closest to people when we promise them something that can never be delivered”
— Alain de Botton
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Simplified Meaning:
When we make promises to someone that we can't actually keep, we create a deep bond with them. Imagine telling a friend you'll always be there for them, no matter what. While it's a comforting idea, in reality, you can't guarantee you'll always be able to help. Think of parents telling their children they'll protect them from all harm. While they will try their best, it's impossible to prevent every danger. These types of promises create strong emotional connections because they represent our deepest wishes and hopes. Even though we might not be able to fulfill these promises, the act of making them shows our care and intent, bringing us closer to those we care about.
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