"جستجوی حقیقت به معنای جستجوی چیزی که مطلوب است نیست"

Talking about truths versus desires, it’s like mixing oil and water. They’re two very different things. The essence of this quote is about the difference between wanting something to be true and actually finding out what is true. It’s a call to be honest with ourselves, seeking reality instead of letting our hopes, dreams, or fears cloud our judgment.

Historically, this idea has been relevant forever. Think of all those times people believed in myths because they wanted them to be true. Whether it’s the belief in alchemists turning lead into gold or, more recently, the idea that certain fad diets can magically make us healthy without effort. Many times, we chase after what we wish were true instead of facing the hard facts.

Take, for example, the world of science. Think about Galileo. Back in the day, people were convinced that the Earth was the center of the universe. It was a comfortable thought—it made humans feel special, like the whole universe revolved around us. But Galileo, through his observations and telescopes, found evidence that the Earth actually revolved around the Sun. That truth wasn’t desirable for many. It upset the status quo, led to a lot of resistance, and even got Galileo in trouble with the authorities. But the truth didn’t change because it was inconvenient or unwanted. Galileo’s commitment to what was true, rather than what was comfortable or desirable, eventually pushed humanity forward.

So, how do you apply this in your own life? Start by questioning the things you take for granted. Ask yourself if you believe something because you want it to be true or because it actually is. It’s like when you’re dealing with personal finances. Maybe you want to believe that ignoring your credit card debt isn’t hurting you. But the truth—the real, hard truth—is that it’s accruing interest and will only get worse if you don’t address it. Facing that fact might be tough, but it’s necessary.

Imagine you're in a job you don’t love. You might tell yourself it’s fine, it pays the bills, and you should stick with it. Deep down, you know you’re unhappy. But seeking the truth about your feelings and the situation can help you make a change. Maybe it means going back to school, looking for a new job, or even starting your own business. It’s scary and it’s not what you’d initially desire, but it’s the truth that can lead to a more fulfilling life.

In storytelling terms, think about The Matrix. Neo could have taken the blue pill and stayed in a comfortable illusion. But he chose the red pill—choosing to see the truth, no matter how harsh. It was a leap into the unknown, full of challenges and difficulties, but it was real. And therein lies the power of seeking truth over desire.

When you’re at that coffee shop, chatting with a friend, remember to ask the tough questions. Check in with yourself about what’s real versus what you’re just hoping for. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it. After all, the truth has a way of setting us free—even if it’s not what we wanted to hear.