"شادی که به اشتراک گذاشته نشود زود می‌میرد"

When we experience joy, it lights us up from the inside. But this light doesn't last if we keep it all to ourselves. To truly keep joy alive, we need to share it with others. Think about it—what good is a joke if there's no one to hear the punchline?

This idea has roots in human connection and the way we naturally form bonds. Historically, humans have always thrived in communities. We tell stories, celebrate together, and lift each other up. It’s no surprise that sharing joy strengthens these bonds.

Imagine a birthday party. Picture the scene: the candles are lit, everyone’s singing, and there's a collective excitement in the air. Now, imagine if that same birthday kid celebrated alone—just a cake and a single voice singing in a quiet room. Doesn’t have the same spark, does it? The joy of birthdays is magnified when it's shared.

So how can we use this wisdom in our daily lives? Start by thinking about the little things that bring you happiness. Did you try a new recipe and nail it? Call a friend and tell them about it. Found a beautiful spot during your morning walk? Take a picture and share it. By involving others in our moments of happiness, we not only keep the joy alive but also deepen our relationships.

A friend of mine, Sarah, loves gardening. She could spend hours in her little green oasis, tending to her plants. But it wasn't until she started inviting friends over to see her garden that her joy really blossomed. She’d host small get-togethers, sharing the produce she grew, and talking about her plants. Her friends would leave inspired, and Sarah's love for gardening grew even stronger because she was able to share it.

Now, let's bring this closer to home. Think about a time when you achieved something you were proud of. Maybe you finished a big project at work or completed a marathon. Remember that rush of joy? Now think about who you shared that moment with. Did it make the joy more vivid? Did their excitement add to yours? That's the magic of shared joy.

To make this more concrete, let's say you're learning to play an instrument. You're struggling with a new piece, but after weeks of practice, you finally get it right. Instead of just feeling satisfied alone, you decide to play it for your family or friends. Their applause, their smiles—suddenly, your hard work means even more. You've created a moment, not just for yourself, but for everyone who gets to experience your joy with you.

So, the next time something brings you joy, resist the urge to keep it to yourself. Share it. Call a friend, post it online, shout it from the rooftops if you have to. By sharing joy, we keep it alive, and we bring a little more happiness into the world. The joy that isn't shared? It fades. But the joy that's shared—that's the joy that lasts.