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"Peut-être que j'ai de la chance d'aller si lentement car il se peut que j'aille dans la mauvaise direction."

Anne Sexton
Anne Sexton Poet
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You know, sometimes life doesn't go as fast as we'd like, right? We're all in this rush to get where we think we need to be, but maybe there's a reason for the slow pace. Think about it—what if speeding ahead means heading the wrong way? Taking things slow can be a blessing in disguise. It gives us time to think, to recalibrate, and make sure we're actually headed where we want to go.

Let's rewind to 1960s America for some historical context. This was a time of rapid change and progress. People were caught up in this whirlwind of transformation—civil rights movements, the space race, new technologies. Everyone was pushing forward, sometimes without stopping to reflect on the actual direction they were taking. The quote reminds us that a slower pace can be an opportunity to reassess and ensure that our path aligns with our true goals and values.

Alright, picture this: there’s a young woman named Sarah. She’s ambitious, climbing up the corporate ladder in a major marketing firm. She’s working late nights, weekends, you name it. She’s pushing full steam ahead, thinking she’s on the path to success. But then, she gets laid off. It feels like the end of the world—her pace from 100 to zero. At first, she’s devastated. But as she takes a step back, she realizes she wasn’t happy. Her health was deteriorating, her relationships strained. Slow down was a blessing. She begins to explore other passions—things she never had time for. Eventually, she starts her own business, something she's truly passionate about. That slow period? It redirected her to a much better path.

Applying this to your own life isn't about waiting for a job loss or a big event. It’s about recognizing the signs. Feeling constantly stressed or unhappy? Maybe that's the universe—or your subconscious—telling you to slow down and reassess. Start with small pauses. Take a weekend off, go for walks without your phone, or have deep conversations with people you trust. Reflect on what truly makes you happy and fulfilled. Then, make adjustments. It doesn't have to be a drastic change. Maybe it's a shift in your career focus, rethinking your work-life balance, or even pursuing a hobby that brings you joy.

Imagine this: you're at a coffee shop, chatting with an old friend. They're telling you about their latest hustle—how they're burning the midnight oil and chasing this big promotion. You can see they're stressed and not really enjoying life. You share this idea with them. Tell them about Sarah. Maybe they’ll start to see that a slower pace isn’t a setback but a chance to find their true direction. Maybe they'll take that weekend off, rediscover a passion, and realize they were in the fast lane to nowhere good.

Life isn’t just about speed. It's about direction. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is slow down, take a breath, and make sure you're on the right path. And hey, next time you find things moving slower than you'd like, maybe it’s just life's way of giving you a chance to reroute to something better.
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