"شاید احساسی که وقتی عاشق هستیم تجربه می‌کنیم نمایانگر یک حالت عادی باشد. عاشق بودن نشان می‌دهد که یک فرد باید چه کسی باشد."

Falling in love is one of those things that can turn your world upside down. It’s a whirlwind of emotions, and everything you experience feels heightened. But what if those feelings are actually how we’re supposed to feel all the time? What if being in love reveals our true selves – the person we should strive to be every day?

Think about it. When you're in love, you’re kinder, more patient, and more understanding. You notice the little things—like how the sun feels warmer, or how a simple song can suddenly have deeper meaning. You're more optimistic, and you see the best in people. You’re fully present in the moment, savoring every laugh, every touch, every shared experience. In short, you’re the best version of yourself.

Historically, this idea isn’t new. Philosophers, poets, and thinkers throughout the ages have pondered the transformative power of love. For instance, Plato talked about love as a “divine madness” that leads us to our highest virtues. He believed that love could inspire us to be more just, more courageous, and ultimately, more human.

Now, let’s bring this idea into a real-life example. Think about a new couple, like your friends Jenna and Mike. Remember how they were when they first started dating? Jenna, who usually stressed about work, suddenly had a more relaxed demeanor. Mike, who rarely expressed his feelings, started opening up and sharing his dreams and fears. They both seemed happier, more vibrant. It was as if being in love had unlocked parts of themselves that had been hidden away.

How can you apply this in your own life? Start by recognizing those qualities you exhibit when you're in love. Maybe you’re more forgiving or more adventurous. Once you identify those traits, consciously practice them, even when you're not in a romantic relationship. It’s not easy – our daily grind can wear us down. But by making an effort to embody those qualities, you can bring a little of that “in love” magic into your everyday life.

Imagine this scenario: You’re at a coffee shop, waiting for your order. The barista looks frazzled, clearly having a rough day. Normally, you might not think twice about it, but today, you decide to channel your “in love” self. You smile genuinely, tell them you appreciate their hard work, and leave a tip. It’s a small gesture, but it makes a difference. You leave feeling a bit lighter, and the barista might feel a bit more appreciated.

Love, in its essence, is about connection – with ourselves and others. When we’re in love, we’re more connected to our emotions, our values, and the people around us. By striving to maintain that connection, even in the absence of romance, we can lead fuller, more meaningful lives. Sure, it’s not always easy, and we won’t always succeed. But every small effort counts.

So next time you feel those butterflies, take a moment to appreciate the version of yourself that emerges. That’s the real you – the one that can make the world a little brighter, one small act of love at a time.