"أن تعيش هو أندر شيء في العالم. معظم الناس موجودون، هذا كل شيء."

Living life to its fullest is a rare thing. Really living, not just going through the motions. Think about it for a second—how many people do you know who are simply existing? They wake up, go to work, come home, watch TV, go to bed, and do it all over again the next day. They're stuck in a rut, a never-ending cycle of monotony.

This idea was famously articulated by Oscar Wilde. Wilde was known for his witty and often profound observations about society and human nature. He lived during the late 19th century—a time when social norms were rigid, and people often led lives dictated by societal expectations rather than personal desires. Wilde's own life was anything but ordinary. He was a playwright, poet, and a flamboyant figure in London’s social circles, always pushing boundaries and challenging conventions. His words remind us to question whether we're truly embracing life or just letting it pass us by.

Let's look at a real-life example to ground this idea. Picture someone who works a nine-to-five job. They might make a decent living, but they're not passionate about what they do. They have dreams of traveling the world, learning new languages, or maybe starting their own business. But every day, they find themselves stuck in the same routine. They're surviving, not thriving. Now imagine they decide to take a sabbatical to travel. They visit new places, meet new people, and come back with a renewed sense of purpose. Suddenly, they're not just existing—they're truly living. They bring that energy and passion back into their everyday life, and it transforms everything they do.

So, how can you apply this wisdom? Start by identifying what really excites you. What makes you feel alive? Is it a hobby, a dream, a new skill? Make time for it. Don't let life become a series of unremarkable days. Take risks, embrace new experiences, and push yourself out of your comfort zone. Maybe it's as simple as taking a different route to work, signing up for a dance class, or booking a spontaneous trip. The key is to break the cycle and inject some passion into your daily routine.

Let me share a story to illustrate this. A friend of mine, Sarah, was a textbook example of someone who was merely existing. She had a stable job in an office, a nice apartment, and a predictable, albeit dull, life. One day, she realized she wasn't happy—she was just comfortable. So she decided to shake things up. She quit her job, sold most of her belongings, and bought a one-way ticket to Thailand. She spent the next year traveling through Asia, teaching English, and volunteering. When she came back, she was a different person. She had a glow, a zest for life that was contagious. She started her own business helping other people find their passion, and she's never been happier.

Living is about more than just being alive. It's about experiencing, feeling, and truly engaging with the world around you. So next time you find yourself stuck in a rut, think about what Oscar Wilde might tell you. Break free from the mundane, and start living a life that excites you. After all, to live is the rarest thing in the world.