"Lo más difícil de explicar es lo evidentemente obvio que todos han decidido no ver"

Sometimes, the most obvious truths are the hardest to talk about, especially when everyone around us chooses to ignore them. It's like the elephant in the room that no one wants to address because it's too uncomfortable or disruptive.

Take a moment to think about climate change. It's one of the most pressing issues of our time, and yet, there are places and people who act like it's not happening. This idea was made clear back in the early 2000s when scientists and environmentalists were shouting from the rooftops about the dangers of global warming, but many industries and governments turned a blind eye. Why? Well, admitting that our way of life needed a drastic change wasn't profitable or convenient. It was easier to just pretend it wasn't there.

For a real-life example, imagine you’re at work and there's a colleague who consistently undermines team projects. Everyone knows they're the problem, but no one says a word because confronting them could lead to conflict and discomfort. It's glaringly obvious that something needs to be done, but the silence is deafening. It's easier to pretend everything is fine rather than stir the pot.

So, how do you apply this wisdom in your own life? First, recognize when something glaring is being ignored. It could be in your personal life, like a relationship that’s dragging you down, or at work, where systemic issues are being swept under the rug. The trick is to muster the courage to not just see it, but talk about it. Start small if you must—acknowledge the issue to yourself first, then slowly bring it up with others.

Imagine this scenario: You’re part of a local community group, and you've noticed that there's a huge gap in how resources are allocated. Some people get more, while others struggle. It’s clear, but no one’s addressing it. One day, at a meeting, you decide to bring it up. It’s awkward at first, and you get a few side glances, but then others start nodding. Turns out, they saw it too—they just needed someone to break the silence. Your courage to speak up becomes the catalyst for change.

Remember, it’s often uncomfortable to point out what everyone is choosing to ignore. But being the one who does can lead to meaningful change. It’s about being brave enough to see things as they are and talking about them, even when it’s easier to stay silent.

So, next time you find yourself in a situation where the obvious is being ignored, take a deep breath, gather your thoughts, and speak up. You might just find that others were waiting for someone to say what they were all thinking. Speaking the truth, even when it's hard, can be a powerful force for change.