"كل الفتيات الجيدات يذهبن إلى الجحيم"

The essence of this quote is that even the best of people can end up in bad situations. No matter how righteous or moral someone is, they're not immune to misfortune, challenges, or negative consequences—sometimes, the good suffer right alongside everyone else.

Historically, this idea speaks to a broader understanding of the human condition. You could trace it back to ancient philosophies and religions, all of which grapple with why bad things happen to good people. In our own lives, we see it play out in countless ways, from personal experiences to stories in the news.

Think about someone you know who's always done the right thing—they volunteer, they help out friends in need, they always play by the rules. Now, imagine this person suddenly facing a serious illness, losing a job, or getting caught up in a legal mess through no fault of their own. It's a harsh reminder that life's fairness isn't guaranteed, no matter how good you are.

To bring this to life, consider the story of a friend of mine—let's call her Sarah. Sarah was the epitome of a good girl: she excelled in school, got along with everyone, and never missed a chance to lend a hand. After college, Sarah landed a job at a nonprofit where she poured her heart into helping underprivileged kids. But then came 2020. The pandemic hit, and Sarah's nonprofit struggled. Despite her tireless efforts, funding dried up, and she was laid off. It was brutal. She did everything right, but the situation was beyond her control. Sarah’s story is a stark example of how life doesn't always reward good behavior with good outcomes.

So, how can you apply this wisdom? First, understand that bad things happening isn't a reflection of your worth. It’s vital to separate your sense of self from external events. When things go south, it’s easy to fall into a spiral of self-blame, but remember: bad situations can strike anyone. Build resilience by focusing on what you can control—your actions, your attitude, your response. And don't be afraid to lean on your support system. Even the most independent people need help sometimes, and that's perfectly okay.

Imagine you’re a student who’s always worked hard and maintained good grades. You're in your final semester, but then your family faces a crisis. Suddenly, you can't keep up with your studies like you used to. It's frustrating and feels unfair. But here's the thing: struggling now doesn’t erase all the good you’ve done. Talk to your professors, seek extensions, and lean on friends for support. You'll find a way through, even if the road’s a bit bumpier than you expected.

Life doesn’t play by simple rules. Good and bad events don’t distribute themselves based on merit. Accepting this can be tough, but it's also liberating. Knowing that you can't control everything helps you focus on what truly matters and gives you the strength to keep going, no matter what. So, if you ever find yourself in a tough spot despite doing everything right, don’t lose heart. You’re not alone—sometimes, even the good girls go to hell, but they find their way back.