"لا تضع إيمانك بالكامل في أي إنسان أبدًا... هناك توقعات مشروعة، ولكن يجب دائمًا ترك مجال لضعف الطبيعة البشرية."

Putting all your trust in one person is risky because everyone makes mistakes. Sure, there are things we can expect from others, but we should always remember that people are only human and bound to mess up sometimes. This idea isn't new—it's something we've all experienced in one way or another. Maybe it's the friend who forgot your birthday or the co-worker who dropped the ball on a big project. We know humans aren’t perfect.

This quote might remind us of times when we've felt let down by someone we trusted. It speaks to a universal experience. Think back to the early days of history when leaders and kings were often deified, seen as almost godly figures. Reality check: they were just as flawed as the rest of us. This idea is timeless because it aligns with the human condition.

Let's dig into a real-life example. Imagine you work at a small startup. Your boss is charismatic, always seems to have the right answers, and the company's early successes are all credited to his brilliant decisions. The team starts to believe he's infallible. Then, one major decision goes south—bad investment, poor market analysis, whatever. Suddenly, the company's in trouble. If you'd remembered that he's human and capable of mistakes, perhaps you would've voiced your concerns earlier or hedged your bets. But because you put all your faith in him, the fallout is that much more shocking.

So, what should we do with this wisdom? First, balance your trust. Rely on people, yes, but also have contingency plans. It's like when you're driving—trust that other drivers will follow the rules, but still keep an eye out for that one car that might run the red light. Second, communicate openly. If something seems off, speak up. This goes for friendships, work relationships, and even family dynamics.

Imagine a scenario where your best friend promises to help you move into a new apartment. You rely entirely on this, don't hire any movers, and take the day off work. On the big day, your friend calls last minute: they’re stuck at the airport. You're stranded with a truckload of boxes and no one to help. If you'd remembered this quote, you might have had a backup plan—maybe hired movers just in case, or asked a couple of other friends to be on standby.

These situations teach us to expect mistakes. It’s not about being cynical, it’s about being realistic. Trust is good, but blind faith can let you down hard. People are wonderful but flawed. And that's okay—we just need to navigate our relationships with this in mind.

So, next time you're placing your trust in someone, take a moment. Ask yourself if you have a plan B. Think about whether you’re setting yourself up for disappointment by expecting perfection. We all make mistakes, and that's part of being human. A little room for error can go a long way in keeping our expectations—and our hearts—a little more resilient.