"Je suis peut-être super mais je ne suis pas un héros"

Sometimes, people can be extraordinary in some ways but feel they're not the heroes others might think they are. It's like you might be amazing at your job or a hobby, yet you don't see yourself as a hero—just someone doing their best. This idea is pretty clear: being exceptional doesn’t automatically make you a hero in your own eyes.

Take Tony Stark, for example. He’s a super genius, billionaire, and builds incredible suits as Iron Man. But he doesn’t always see himself as a hero. In the Marvel movies, he’s often grappling with his own flaws and the consequences of his actions. He knows he’s smart and resourceful, but he's also painfully aware of his shortcomings—his ego, his mistakes. So, even with all his super abilities, he often feels he falls short of the hero mark because being a hero isn’t just about having powers; it’s about character and choices.

Now, let’s bring it down to earth with a real-life example. Think about a nurse working during the pandemic. This person is undoubtedly skilled, knowledgeable, and hardworking—traits that are kind of super when you think about it. They’re on the front lines, saving lives, working long hours, and facing unimaginable stress. But ask many of them, and they might say, "I’m just doing my job. I’m no hero." Why? Because they see the cracks in their armor—the times they felt helpless or couldn’t save someone. Their view of heroism is someone who’s perfect, who never loses a patient, who never makes mistakes.

So, how can we apply this wisdom to our own lives? First, we need to recognize that being hard on ourselves is human. We all have moments where we think we should be doing more or doing better. It’s crucial to remember that heroism isn’t about perfection but about trying, about showing up, and doing the best you can with what you have. You don’t need to wear a cape to be a hero in someone’s eyes.

Imagine this: You’re a parent. You juggle work, kids, and life’s chaos. Sometimes, you lose your temper, or maybe you miss a school play. You might think, “I’m failing at this.” But imagine your kid’s perspective. They see you as their rock, their comfort, the one who loves them unconditionally. To them, you’re a hero, even if you don’t feel like one.

In essence, being super is about the skills and abilities you bring to the table. Being a hero is about the heart and choices you make. You might not always feel like a hero, and that’s okay. It’s not about seeing yourself through a flawless lens but about acknowledging your efforts and impact. So, give yourself some grace, recognize your worth, and remember—you don’t have to be perfect to be super in someone’s story.