"یک مرد باید به کلماتش به همان محکمی که به قوانینش پایبند است پایبند باشد"

Standing by your words means taking responsibility for what you say, just like you would follow laws you believe in. It's about being reliable and trustworthy. When you say something, people should be able to count on you not to go back on it.

Think back to a time when promises meant a lot. Maybe it was a personal commitment—to a friend or a partner. This idea of sticking by our words is timeless. It’s been crucial in history too. For instance, in ancient times, a person's word was their bond. If you promised something and didn’t deliver, your reputation could be ruined.

Let’s look at a real-life example. Imagine you’re a manager at work, and you promise your team that if they meet a certain goal, they’ll get a bonus. They work hard, and they achieve it. If you then turn around and say, “Well, actually, we can’t give you that bonus right now,” you’ve broken their trust. They’ll feel disappointed and maybe even angry. But if you keep your promise, they feel valued and respected. They trust you more. They believe you’re someone who stands by their words.

So, how can we apply this wisdom in our daily lives? If you make a promise, make sure you can keep it. Don’t say you’ll do something if you’re unsure you can follow through. It’s better to be honest upfront. For example, if you’re unsure about completing a task by a certain deadline, be upfront about it. Say, “I’ll do my best to finish this by Friday, but it might take a bit longer.” It’s better than promising Friday and not delivering.

Imagine this scenario: You’re planning a surprise birthday party for a friend. You’ve been telling everyone it’s a secret, and you’ve sworn them to secrecy. But one person lets it slip. Your friend finds out and the surprise is ruined. You feel betrayed, right? This is what it feels like when someone doesn’t stand by their words. It’s not a law, but it’s a promise—and it’s been broken.

On the flip side, think about the times when someone has stood by their words for you. Maybe a friend promised to help you move, and they showed up, even though it was raining. Or a colleague said they’d cover your shift, and they did, no matter what. Those are the moments that build trust and strengthen relationships.

So, the next time you give your word, think of it as a commitment. Just like laws keep society in check, your words keep personal and professional relationships strong and healthy. Be mindful. Be sincere. And remember—keeping your word is a reflection of your integrity.