"Remember me and smile, for it’s better to forget"

This quote is about cherishing the good memories and smiling when you remember someone, rather than being bogged down by the pain of forgetting. It’s about focusing on the happy moments you shared with that person instead of the sadness that might come with their absence.

To give you a bit of background, this sentiment has been shared in various forms throughout history. It reminds me of the way people often talk about loved ones who have passed away. Instead of dwelling on the loss, they choose to celebrate the life that was lived, the joy that was shared. It’s a healthier, more positive way to handle grief.

Now, picture this: there's a person named Sarah who recently lost her grandmother. They were incredibly close, and Sarah would often visit her grandma’s house, where they'd bake cookies together and laugh over old stories. The house was always filled with this warm, comforting aroma of vanilla and sugar. After her grandmother passed away, Sarah felt an overwhelming sadness. The emptiness of the house without her grandma’s laughter was almost too much to bear.

However, instead of letting the grief consume her, Sarah decided to remember her grandmother in a way that brought a smile to her face. She continued to bake cookies, using her grandma’s recipe, and invited friends over to share in the experience. They’d sit around the kitchen table, cookies in hand, sharing stories and laughter, much like Sarah did with her grandma. Through this, Sarah found a way to keep the memory of her grandmother alive in a joyful manner, rather than focusing solely on her absence.

If you’re wondering how you can apply this wisdom in your own life, start by thinking about someone you’ve lost or a relationship that’s ended. Instead of dwelling on the sadness, try to find a way to honor those memories in a way that makes you smile. Maybe it’s through a photo album, a favorite song, or cooking a meal that you used to share together. The key is to focus on the positive memories, the laughter, the joy, and let those feelings guide you.

Imagine a scenario where you’ve just moved to a new city, leaving behind friends and family. It’s easy to get caught up in the heartbreak of the distance. But instead, what if you organized occasional video calls where you guys can hang out and do something fun together? Maybe you can all cook the same recipe and then sit down to eat, just like old times. This way, you’re creating new happy memories while cherishing the old ones.

In life, we’ll always face moments of parting. It’s inevitable. But by choosing to remember the smiles and the joy we shared with others, we can keep those connections alive in the most beautiful way possible. So next time you find yourself missing someone, try to focus on the good times. Let those memories bring a smile to your face. Because, in the end, it’s better to celebrate what we had rather than lament what we’ve lost.