"اگر واقعاً بخواهی کاری انجام دهی، راهی پیدا خواهی کرد. اگر نخواهی، بهانه‌ای پیدا خواهی کرد."

Sometimes, when we truly desire something, we become incredibly resourceful. We find ways, even if they seem impossible at first. But when our hearts aren't really in it, we come up with all kinds of excuses. It's that simple.

Think about Thomas Edison. People know him as the guy who invented the light bulb, but it wasn't just a stroke of genius. He tried hundreds, if not thousands, of different filaments before he found one that worked. If he wasn't really passionate about creating a lasting light source, he could've easily given up after the first dozen failures. But his determination to invent something that would light up homes and streets spurred him on. He didn’t make excuses; he kept pushing forward.

Now, let's bring this a bit closer to home. Imagine you want to get fit. You promise yourself you'll hit the gym every morning. The first week goes well, but by the second week, you’re tired. It’s cold out. Maybe you had a late night and just want to sleep in. If you’re not really committed, it’s easy to find excuses: "I’ll go tomorrow," or "I don’t have time today." But if you genuinely want to change, you’ll find a way. Maybe that means packing your gym clothes the night before, setting multiple alarms, or finding a gym buddy to keep you accountable. The difference is in your willingness to push past the barriers.

So, how can we apply this wisdom? First, identify what you truly want. Not what you think you should want, or what others expect of you, but what really ignites your passion. Once you know this, commit wholeheartedly. Write down your goals, break them into manageable steps, and remind yourself daily why you started. When obstacles arise—and they will—remember why you’re doing this. Visualize the end result and the satisfaction you’ll feel. This can help you push through moments of doubt.

Here’s a little story to illustrate this concept. Picture Sarah. She’s always wanted to write a novel but never found the time. She works a 9 to 5 job, has a family, and other commitments. Every time she thinks about writing, she tells herself she’s too busy. Then one day, she decides she’s had enough of the excuses. She sets her alarm an hour earlier and dedicates that time solely to writing. At first, it’s tough. She’s not used to the early mornings and some days, she barely writes a paragraph. But she sticks with it. Soon, that hour becomes her favorite part of the day. Slowly but surely, her novel starts to take shape. She’s not just making time; she’s making a way.

Remember, if you really want to achieve something, you’ll find the time, the resources, and the energy. If you don’t, you’ll find excuses. It’s a matter of aligning your actions with your true desires. Next time you’re faced with a challenge, ask yourself, “Is this something I genuinely want, or am I looking for a way out?” The answer will guide your next step.