"هر آنچه فکر می‌کنی دنیا از تو دریغ می‌کند، تو از دنیا دریغ می‌کنی."

The essence of this quote is that often, the things we feel are lacking in our lives are the very things we aren't giving out ourselves. It's a bit like looking for kindness but not showing kindness to others. If you want more of something, you need to start by giving it.

This idea harks back to the teachings of many philosophers and spiritual leaders. It’s a perspective found in various religious texts and philosophical traditions. Think about the Golden Rule: treat others as you want to be treated. It’s a similar idea. If you feel the world is being stingy with you, maybe you need to check if you’re being stingy with the world.

Let me paint a picture for you. Imagine Sarah, who feels that people at her workplace aren’t supportive. She feels isolated and thinks no one really cares about her ideas. She’s waiting for someone to step up and be her friend. But then, she decides to flip the script. She starts by taking a genuine interest in her colleagues, asking about their weekends, offering help on projects, and sharing her own ideas openly. Slowly, but surely, the atmosphere around her changes. People begin to reciprocate her kindness and openness. The world started giving her what she was giving out.

So, how do you apply this wisdom in your own life? Start small. If you feel lonely, reach out to someone else who might be lonely too. If you want more appreciation, start by appreciating others. You’ll be surprised at how the energy you put out into the world comes back to you. It’s like a boomerang effect—what you throw out there returns to you.

Picture this: You’re at a coffee shop, and you see someone struggling with their laptop. It’s clear they’re having a bad day. You could ignore it, thinking, "I wish someone would help me when I'm in trouble." Or, you could offer a hand. Maybe all they need is a bit of tech advice or just a simple, "Hey, I’ve been there. Can I help with anything?" This small act can change their day, and who knows, it might start a ripple effect of kindness.

Here’s a relatable story. Once, I felt that my family wasn’t showing much interest in my life. I was waiting for them to ask about my day, my projects, my struggles. But then it hit me—I wasn’t really showing interest in their lives either. I decided to change that. I started calling more often, asking detailed questions about their days, their thoughts, their worries. And guess what? They began to do the same for me. It was like opening a gate that had been closed for too long.

So, next time you feel the world isn’t giving you what you need, ask yourself: Are you giving that very thing to the world? It’s a shift in perspective that can transform your interactions and experiences. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth the effort. It’s about taking the first step, putting yourself out there, and being the change you want to see.