“He that wrestles with us strengthens our nerves and sharpens our skill Our antagonist is our helper”
— Edmund Burke
Simplified Meaning:
When someone challenges us, they help us become stronger and better at what we do. Think about a person who lifts weights to build muscle. The more they lift, the stronger they get. In the same way, facing difficulties or competing with others helps us improve our abilities. For example, imagine a student who has a rival in school. Because they both want to be the best, they study harder and learn more. Without that competition, they might not put in as much effort. So, the rival is actually helping them get better, even though it feels like they are against each other. When you have someone who pushes you or competes with you, they make you better in ways you might not see right away. Instead of fearing challenges or opponents, we can see them as opportunities to grow. In daily life, this means not avoiding difficult tasks or people, but welcoming them as chances to improve. So next time someone challenges you, remember that they are helping you become stronger and more skilled. Embrace these moments, and you will find yourself getting better and achieving more.