"友情は愛よりも深く人生に印をつける"

Friendship has an incredible impact on our lives—sometimes even more than romantic love. When you think about it, friendships shape our experiences, influence our decisions, and support us through thick and thin. While love often gets the spotlight, those steady friendships in the background are quietly doing some heavy lifting.

Historically, this idea has been explored in countless ways. Take Aristotle, for example. He talked a lot about friendships of utility, pleasure, and the highest form—virtuous friendships. These virtuous friendships are the deep connections we form with people who help us grow into better versions of ourselves. They’re not based on what we can get from the relationship but on mutual respect and support. Aristotle believed these were essential for a good life.

I've got a story for you that perfectly captures this. Think about Harry Potter for a second. Sure, there’s a lot of focus on the love stories—Harry and Ginny, Ron and Hermione. But what really stands out in J.K. Rowling's series? It’s the friendships. Harry, Ron, and Hermione share a bond that carries them through the darkest times. They support each other, challenge each other, and most importantly, they stick together no matter what. That’s the kind of friendship that marks a life deeply.

So, how do you apply this wisdom in your own life? Start by recognizing the value of your friends. Make time for them—really make time. Go beyond the occasional text or like on social media. Arrange to meet up, have deep conversations, and be there when they need you. Another key thing is to be open and honest. True friendships thrive on authenticity, so don't be afraid to show your vulnerabilities or share your true feelings.

Now, picture a scenario. Imagine you’ve had a rough week at work. Everything that could go wrong, did. Deadlines were missed, you had a spat with a colleague, and to top it all off, your car broke down. You’re feeling pretty low. What gets you through? Maybe it's a friend who drops by with your favorite comfort food, listens to you vent without judgment, and adds a bit of humor to lighten the mood. That friend who’s willing to sit with you in your mess and still see the best in you? They’re marking your life in ways that a romantic partner might not always be able to.

Life is full of ups and downs, and while love can be an incredible rollercoaster, friendships are often the steady handrails that keep us grounded. They offer a different kind of love—one that’s supportive, enduring, and just as essential for a fulfilling life. So, next time you’re thinking about what (or who) makes your life meaningful, don’t forget those friends who’ve been there all along. They might just be the unsung heroes of your story.