"Solo la persona que tiene fe en sí misma es capaz de ser fiel a los demás"

Believing in yourself is the bedrock for being reliable and trustworthy to others. When you have confidence and trust in your own abilities and decisions, it grounds you in a way that allows you to extend that trustworthiness to others.

Think about it this way: if you don’t truly believe in your own worth and capabilities, how can you consistently be there for others? If you're always second-guessing yourself or doubting your value, it’s hard to be the rock someone else might need.

Historically, this idea pops up in various forms. For example, in the teachings of many philosophical and spiritual leaders, self-belief is often a precursor to living a life of integrity and reliability. When you understand your own strengths and weaknesses, and you accept yourself, you're less likely to project your insecurities onto others. This self-awareness and acceptance form the foundation of being able to genuinely support and uphold others.

Let me give you a practical example. Imagine you're a manager at a company. If you don’t believe in your ability to lead, your team will sense your uncertainty. This can undermine their trust in you and create a shaky work environment. On the flip side, if you trust your instincts and your skills, it shows. Your team feels secure, knowing that you are confident in the decisions you make. They can rely on you, knowing that you’re not just guessing but are grounded in a place of self-assurance.

So, how do you apply this wisdom? Start with self-reflection. Spend some time figuring out what you’re good at and where you need to grow. Embrace your strengths. Work on your weaknesses. This could be through professional development, personal hobbies, or even therapy. Once you feel more secure in who you are, that confidence will naturally spill over into your interactions with others.

Imagine you and your friend are planning a road trip. You’ve always been the nervous type, second-guessing your ability to navigate or to make decisions about where to stop. Your friend, picking up on your lack of confidence, might also start to feel anxious about the trip. But let’s say you’ve recently spent time improving your navigational skills and building up your confidence. This time, when you plan the trip, you’re sure of your choices—your friend relaxes, knowing you’ve got things under control. The journey is smoother because your self-assuredness has created a stable foundation.

In essence, think of self-faith as the roots of a tree. If the roots are strong and deeply embedded, the tree stands firm and can weather storms. Similarly, a person with strong self-belief can be dependable and steady for others, even when things get tough. So, take the time to cultivate that inner confidence. It’s not just about feeling good—it’s about being the person others can count on.