"L'amour est un verbe. C'est quelque chose que vous faites."

Love isn’t just a feeling or a state of being; it's an action. It’s the things you do every day—small and big—that show someone you care. Think about it. You can say "I love you" a million times, but if your actions don’t back it up, those words become empty. Love is picking up your friend's favorite snack just because, or listening to your partner vent about their day with genuine interest. It's these actions that demonstrate and sustain love.

Historically, the idea that love is something you do, not just something you feel, has been around for ages. It’s rooted in many cultural teachings and philosophies. For instance, in ancient Greek, there are several words for love: agape (selfless love), eros (romantic love), and philia (brotherly love). Each type of love is expressed through actions—whether it’s through sacrifice, passion, or companionship.

Take, for example, a story about a couple, Sarah and Tom. They’ve been married for 20 years. Early in their marriage, they went through a rough patch. They had different love languages—Sarah needed words of affirmation, while Tom valued acts of service. They argued a lot, feeling unloved and misunderstood. A counselor suggested they start showing love in the way the other person needed it. Tom began to tell Sarah how much he appreciated her, leaving little notes around the house. Sarah, on the other hand, started doing small chores she knew Tom hated, like taking out the trash. Slowly but surely, their actions began to rekindle their love for each other. It wasn’t the grand gestures that made the difference, but the consistent, everyday acts of love.

How do you apply this in your own life? Start by identifying what actions make you feel loved and ask your partner or loved ones what makes them feel the same. Maybe it's as simple as cooking a meal together or taking a walk. The key is consistency. It’s the little things, done regularly, that build a strong foundation. If you’re thinking about how to show love, don’t wait for a special occasion. Just do it. Make that call, send that text, or give that hug.

Imagine this scenario: You're having a busy week at work and feeling overwhelmed. Suddenly, you get a text from a friend saying, "Hey, thinking of you! Let’s grab coffee this weekend." That one small gesture can lift your spirits. Now flip it. Your friend might be the one having a tough time. Reaching out to them, even if it’s just a quick message or setting aside time to meet, shows you care. It’s a verb—an action.

So, next time you think about love, remember it’s not just a noun—it’s something you do. It’s in the everyday acts that you find genuine connection and lasting relationships. Whether it’s through kind words, thoughtful gestures, or simply being present, love is most powerful when it's in motion.