"عشق دادن به معنای از دست دادن است"

Loving someone is a profound act of courage and vulnerability because it means opening yourself up to the possibility of loss. When you love, you risk your heart—it's like handing over a fragile piece of yourself and trusting it’ll be handled with care. Love is inherently tied to the possibility of losing, whether it's through the end of a relationship, the death of a loved one, or simply growing apart. Loving fully means accepting that deep connection and potential loss are two sides of the same coin.

Historically, the idea that love and loss are intertwined has been a recurring theme in literature, philosophy, and even everyday life. Think about the classic tragic love stories—like Romeo and Juliet or even modern-day tales. These stories resonate because they reflect a fundamental truth: to love deeply is to expose oneself to the potential for deep sorrow. This concept is timeless and universal, making it relevant to all of us.

Consider the experience of a parent. From the moment their child is born, a parent is filled with overwhelming love and joy. But along with that joy comes the awareness that they can't protect their child from every harm, that one day their child will grow up, and that they might face heartache or failure. Despite knowing all this, parents still love fiercely and unconditionally. It's a pure form of love that accepts the inevitability of loss—whether it's the small losses of childhood milestones or the larger, more permanent losses that life can bring.

So, how can you apply this wisdom to your life? First, recognize that the fear of losing shouldn't deter you from loving fully. Embrace love with the understanding that loss is a part of the experience, not a deterrent. It’s about living with an open heart. When you love someone, communicate it often. Don’t hold back your affection or your words. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and cherish the moments you have.

Imagine a scenario where you're hesitant to tell someone how much they mean to you because you fear rejection or eventual heartache. If you hold back, you might miss out on a beautiful relationship that could enrich your life in unimaginable ways. Instead, take the leap. Tell that friend, partner, or family member how you feel. Yes, there’s a risk, but there’s also the possibility of deep, meaningful connection.

Let me share a personal story. A close friend of mine lost his mother unexpectedly. He always used to say, “I’ll call her tomorrow.” That tomorrow never came. After she passed, he was filled with regret about the things left unsaid. This experience taught him—and me by extension—that we can’t take our relationships for granted. It’s better to express your love now, even if it feels scary, rather than wait for a “perfect” moment that might never come.

In the end, loving is about embracing the full spectrum of human experience: the joy, the connection, and, yes, the potential for loss. Don’t let the fear of losing someone stop you from loving them wholeheartedly. Life is fleeting, and love is one of the most profound experiences we can share. So, dare to love fully, even with the knowledge that loss is part of the deal—because the richness of love far outweighs the fear of losing it.