"خداوندا مرا وسیله صلح خود قرار ده جایی که نفرت است بگذار عشق بکارم"

This line is a plea for transformation and purpose. It’s asking for the ability to become a force for good, to bring peace and love where there is none. Simply put, it's about wanting to be a beacon of positivity in a world that can often be filled with negativity and conflict.

Historically, this is the opening of the Prayer of St. Francis, attributed to St. Francis of Assisi, who lived in the 12th century. He was known for his deep love of nature, humility, and desire to live a life of poverty and service. This prayer reflects his mission of spreading peace and understanding in a tumultuous world.

Picture this: you’re in a heated argument with a close friend. Voices are raised, feelings are getting hurt, and it seems like every word said is just adding fuel to the fire. Now imagine, right in the middle of that, you take a deep breath and decide to be the instrument of peace. You lower your voice, maybe even apologize for your part, and try to understand where your friend is coming from. What happens next? Maybe the argument simmers down. Maybe you even find a resolution. That’s what this quote is getting at—choosing love over hatred, peace over conflict.

So how do you do that in everyday life? Start small. Think about your interactions at work, with family, or even strangers. If someone is rude to you, resist the urge to snap back. Instead, respond with kindness. It’s not easy—it might even feel impossible sometimes—but even little acts can make a huge difference. Someone cuts you off in traffic? Let it go and don’t let it ruin your day. A colleague takes credit for your idea? Have a calm conversation instead of plotting revenge. These are the moments where you can choose to be an instrument of peace.

Imagine you're at a family dinner, and everyone’s discussing politics. It’s getting heated—voices are rising, and sides are clearly being drawn. You can feel the tension in the air. You’ve got two choices: dive in and throw more fuel on the fire, or try something different. What if you asked questions instead of making statements? What if you tried to understand the other side, maybe even found some common ground? It doesn't mean you have to agree—but it does mean you're choosing understanding over conflict.

I remember a story from a colleague. She was managing a team that was always at each other’s throats. Every meeting felt like a battlefield. She decided she’d had enough—she was going to be the instrument of peace. She started by having one-on-one conversations, really listening to each team member’s concerns. She found common goals they could all rally around. Slowly but surely, the atmosphere changed. It wasn’t overnight, and it wasn’t easy, but by choosing to sow love where there was hatred, she turned a dysfunctional team into a high-performing one.

So next time you feel the tension rising, think of this quote. Take a breath and ask yourself: How can I bring peace to this situation? It’s about making a choice, moment by moment, to be the kind of person who spreads love, not hate. It’s not always the easiest path, but it’s one that makes a real difference—in your life and in the lives of those around you.