“All of us, to a greater or lesser degree, live lives of false selves”
— Gabor Mate
Simplified Meaning:
People often hide their true thoughts and feelings and show others a different version of themselves. This can happen because they want to fit in, avoid conflict, or be liked by other people. Imagine a person who pretends to enjoy a sport they actually dislike because their friends love it; they might act excited about games, but inside they feel bored. This kind of behavior can make people feel disconnected from their own true selves. Over time, living like this can lead to unhappiness because they are not being honest about who they really are. To live more truly, one should try to understand and express their real feelings and interests, even if it means some people might not agree with them.
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Authenticity Identity Individuality Introspection Persona Personal growth Psychology Self-awareness Self-discovery True self
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