"Vous devez comprendre que votre parcours est unique."

Everyone has their own path in life. It’s a bit like hiking up a mountain. Sure, we're all aiming for the top, but some of us take the steep trail, others the winding one, and some might even blaze their own. You can’t measure your progress by looking at someone else’s trek.

Looking back at history — imagine the legendary artist Vincent van Gogh. During his lifetime, he was not celebrated; he was often ridiculed. If van Gogh had compared his journey to his contemporaries, who were enjoying fame and success, he might have never continued painting. But he didn’t. He stayed true to his unique style and vision. Fast forward to today, and his works are some of the most revered in the world. His journey was distinct, incomparable, and ultimately, profoundly impactful.

Take the example of a young entrepreneur starting a small business. She might look at giant corporations and feel overwhelmed. But if she understands that her journey is unique, she’ll realize that her small steps matter. She’ll celebrate her first sale, her first positive review, and her growth, however modest. It’s about understanding that her path, with its challenges and triumphs, is hers alone. And that’s beautiful.

So, how can you apply this wisdom in your life? Start by recognizing that your experiences, your challenges, and your victories are your own. When you see someone else’s success, don’t use it as a yardstick for your life. Instead, draw inspiration from it. Celebrate your milestones, however big or small. Keep a journal — write down your thoughts, your achievements, and don’t just focus on the destination, cherish the journey.

Let’s make this concrete with a story. Imagine you’re at a reunion. You meet an old friend who’s been traveling the world, another who’s got a booming career, and yet another who just bought a house. You might feel a pang of envy or a sense of inadequacy. But hold on. Your friend who’s traveling — she’s dealing with homesickness and the instability of living out of a suitcase. The one with the booming career? Long hours and high stress. The new homeowner? They’re likely dealing with mortgage payments and the stress of maintaining a property.

Now, think about your life. Maybe you’re raising a family, and your days are filled with laughter, love, and yes, chaos too. Or perhaps you’re pursuing a degree, and your nights are spent with your nose buried in books. Each of these paths is unique, and each has its own set of challenges and joys.

Remember this: You’re not behind. You’re not ahead. You’re right where you need to be. Embrace your journey, with all its twists and turns. Celebrate your unique path, because it's yours. And that’s something no one else can ever walk.