"لأن الحب أعمى طوال اليوم ولا يمكنه الرؤية"

Love has a funny way of making us overlook things, right? That’s essentially what the quote is getting at. When we’re in love, our judgment can get a little clouded. We tend to miss the obvious red flags or imperfections because we’re just so head over heels. It's like we're wearing rose-colored glasses that blur out all the potential deal-breakers.

This idea isn't new, by the way. Geoffrey Chaucer wrote those words back in the 14th century in "The Canterbury Tales." He was pointing out something timeless about human nature—that love can make us blind to reality. It’s not just romantic love either; this blindness can extend to our passions, our hobbies, and even our dreams.

Think about someone who’s really passionate about a project at work. They’re so invested in it that they might miss the fact that the project isn’t actually feasible. They’re blinded by their love for the idea. Or consider a friend who’s in a new relationship. They might not see that their partner isn't treating them well because they're caught up in the excitement of new love.

Take my cousin, Emma, for instance. She fell hard for this guy who seemed perfect on the surface. He was charming and attentive—at first. But as time went on, it became clear that he was controlling and manipulative. She didn't see it because she was so in love. Her friends and family could see the problems, but she was blinded by her feelings. It wasn't until things got really bad that she finally saw the truth. Love had made her blind to his flaws.

So, how do you avoid falling into this trap? One piece of advice is to lean on your friends and family. They often see things more clearly than you do when you’re in the throes of love. If people you trust are raising concerns, don't just dismiss them. Take a step back and try to look at the situation objectively. Another tip is to give yourself some time. Love at first sight might be romantic, but it’s not always practical. Let the relationship develop before making any big decisions. Time has a way of revealing the truth.

Imagine you’re shopping for a new car. You find one that looks amazing, and you’re ready to buy it on the spot. But your best friend points out that the car has a history of engine problems. At first, you don't want to believe it because you love the car’s design and features. But, after some thought, you decide to take it to a mechanic who confirms your friend’s concerns. You end up saving yourself from a lot of trouble. Love can be like that car. Sometimes, you need an outside perspective to see what’s really there.

So next time you find yourself falling in love—whether it's with a person, a project, or an idea—try to remember Chaucer's wisdom. Love can make you blind, but with a little help from your friends and a bit of patience, you can learn to see clearly. And, you can enjoy the ride without missing the warning signs along the way.