"注意得到你喜欢的东西，否则你将被迫喜欢你得到的东西。"

Imagine if you end up with something you're just "meh" about because you didn't put in the effort to get what you actually wanted. That’s what this quote is getting at. It’s a reminder that if you don't strive for what you truly desire, you might have to settle for whatever comes your way—and then convince yourself that it’s good enough.

Think about job hunting. Let’s say you're really into graphic design. It's your passion, your calling. But you get an offer for a sales job first and, eager to get something, you take it. Over time, you might find yourself trying to convince yourself that you like it—after all, it's a job, right? But deep down, you know you settled. The job doesn't fulfill you, and you end up stuck because you didn't hold out for what you really wanted.

Now, let’s look at a real-life example. Ever heard of Steve Jobs? He's the guy who co-founded Apple. Back in the day, Jobs was kicked out of Apple, the very company he started. Did he mope around and take the first job that came his way? Nope. He went on to start a new company called NeXT. Eventually, Apple bought NeXT, and Jobs was back at the helm. If he hadn't pursued what he truly liked—creating innovative technology—he wouldn't have gotten back to doing what he loved at Apple.

So, how do you apply this wisdom? Start by figuring out what you actually want. This might mean spending some time alone, journaling, or talking it out with friends. Once you know, set clear goals. Make a plan and stick to it. It's easy to get distracted or disheartened, especially when things get tough. But remember, settling for something less means you might have to live with it for a long time—or worse, convince yourself that it's what you wanted all along.

Picture this: You're at a coffee shop with a friend. They’re talking about how they just accepted a job offer that they’re not thrilled about. The pay is decent, but the role isn’t what they’re passionate about. You ask, "Why didn’t you wait for something better?" They shrug and say, "I needed a job." You can see their lack of excitement. Now, if they had held out a bit longer, researched companies they were excited about, and applied for roles that matched their interests, they might have landed a job that makes them eager to get up in the morning.

So, next time you face a decision, whether it's about a job, a relationship, or even a new hobby, ask yourself: Is this what I truly want? If it’s not, take a step back and reassess. It’s better to wait and put in the effort to get what you love than to settle and have to convince yourself you’re happy with less. Remember, it's your life—you get to choose what fills it. Make sure those choices align with what really makes you happy.