"Las cosas que amamos nos destruyen cada vez."

Sometimes, the very things we care about can end up being our downfall. It’s a paradox, really. We’re drawn to people, passions, and pursuits with such intensity that we can’t see how they might be hurting us. Picture it like a moth to a flame—it’s entrancing, beautiful, but ultimately, it burns.

This idea has been echoed throughout history and literature. Think of the ancient Greek myth of Icarus. Icarus loved the thrill of flying so much that he ignored his father’s warnings and flew too close to the sun. The wax in his wings melted, and he plummeted to his death. His love for the skies, for that feeling of freedom, led to his end. That’s a pretty clear way to see how something we adore can turn around and harm us.

Let's talk about a real-life example. Take someone who's deeply passionate about their career. Imagine a successful entrepreneur who pours everything into building a business. Early mornings, late nights, missing family gatherings, and even sacrificing personal health. They love what they do; the business is their baby. But this relentless pursuit can lead to burnout, strained relationships, and health issues. The very love for their career—what gives them joy and purpose—is also what’s slowly wearing them down.

So, how do we apply this insight in our own lives? First, self-awareness is key. Recognize what you're passionate about and honestly assess whether it’s becoming more harmful than beneficial. It’s about finding balance. Love your work? Great. But set boundaries. Make time for other aspects of your life: family, health, relaxation. It's okay to step back and breathe.

Imagine you’ve taken up running. You start small, a few miles here and there. You love the endorphin rush, the way your body feels stronger. Soon, you’re running marathons. But then, your knees start acting up. You’re exhausted all the time. The very thing you love—running—is now causing physical pain and fatigue. What do you do? You don’t have to quit. Instead, you might dial it back, cross-train, and maybe see a physiotherapist. Balance out that love with care.

Here’s a more everyday scenario: Think about a romantic relationship. At first, it’s wonderful. You’re head over heels. But if you’re not careful, that intense love can become possessive or all-consuming. You might neglect friendships, lose sight of personal goals, or even compromise your values. The key is to love deeply but also wisely. Keep your individuality, your other connections, and your sense of self intact.

So, next time you find yourself deeply engrossed in something you love, take a step back. Ask yourself, “Is this helping me grow, or is it starting to hurt me?” It’s a tough balance, but an important one. Remember, the moth doesn’t stop loving the light—it just needs to keep a safe distance.

In the end, being aware and mindful of our passions can help ensure that they bring us joy and fulfillment, rather than leading to our undoing. It’s all about balance—loving wisely and living fully.