"في النهاية سيبرر الناس كل شيء يريدونه"

The essence of this quote is that people tend to rationalize their actions and desires, no matter what. When someone wants something badly enough, they can find a way to convince themselves and others that it's the right thing to do. This is a universal human behavior—our brains are wired to protect our self-image and justify our choices.

Historically, this idea isn't new. Think about ancient Rome. Julius Caesar famously crossed the Rubicon River with his army, an act of war against the Roman Senate. He justified it by claiming it was necessary for the good of Rome and its people. In reality, it was a grab for power. People have always found ways to make their actions seem justifiable, even when they're not.

Let's look at a more modern example. Imagine a person who really wants to buy a new car. They might tell themselves that their current car is unreliable, that the new car will be safer, or that they deserve a treat after working so hard. They might even believe these reasons wholeheartedly. But deep down, the real reason might just be that they want the new car because it looks cool or because their neighbor just got one. This is how we’re wired—to create justifications that make our desires seem logical and reasonable.

So, how can you apply this bit of wisdom in your own life? Start by being aware. When you find yourself wanting something strongly, take a step back. Ask yourself: "Am I justifying this because I really need it, or because I just want it?" Sometimes it's helpful to get a second opinion from a friend or family member. They can provide an outside perspective that might be more objective.

Here's a little story to really bring this home. Imagine you're at a coffee shop with a friend, chatting about life. Your friend, let's call her Sarah, is talking about how she's considering quitting her stable job to start a bakery. She explains that she's passionate about baking, and she’s tired of her office job. She lists all the reasons why it's a great idea—she’ll be her own boss, create delicious treats, and make people happy. But as you listen, you realize she's glossing over the risks and challenges. Running a bakery is hard work, and it requires more than just a love of baking. She’s justifying her decision because she wants it so badly.

In this scenario, you could gently remind Sarah to think about the reality of her choice. Encourage her to consider the financial investment, the long hours, and the potential stress. Maybe suggest she try baking part-time first to see if it’s really for her. By doing this, you’re helping her see beyond her justifications and make a more balanced decision.

In the end, we all justify what we want. It's part of being human. But by being aware of this tendency, we can make more thoughtful choices and understand others better. The next time you find yourself or someone else justifying a decision, take a moment to dig a little deeper. You might discover the real reasons behind the actions—and that’s where true wisdom lies.