"أفضل الأشياء في الحياة لا ينبغي أن تُقنَّن"

The essence of this quote is simple: the truly valuable parts of life—like love, joy, and genuine connections—shouldn't be doled out sparingly. We shouldn't be so cautious or reserved with the things that make life rich and meaningful. Instead, we should share them freely and abundantly.

Historically, this kind of sentiment often surfaces during times of hardship or after personal epiphanies. Imagine someone who has lived through a war or a severe personal crisis. They come out the other side with a new appreciation for life's intangibles. The saying could emerge from a realization that while material resources might be limited, the capacity for love, kindness, and joy is boundless. You might hear something like this from someone who’s had a close call and now values every moment more deeply—an almost universal human experience at one point or another.

Think about a real-life example: imagine a friend who's always been a bit of a workaholic. They constantly put in extra hours at the office, thinking they'll enjoy life later. But then, something shakes them—maybe a health scare or losing someone close. Suddenly, they see things differently. They start taking vacations, calling friends just to chat, and saying “I love you” without holding back. Their relationships deepen, their happiness grows, and they realize that the best parts of life flourish when shared generously.

So how can you apply this wisdom? Start small. Make an effort to express gratitude daily. If someone does something nice, let them know you appreciate it—don’t just think it. Share your time by being fully present with those you care about. Got a funny story? Tell it! Feeling affectionate? Show it! Don’t wait for the “right” moment to share love, laughter, or kindness. Those moments are perfect right now.

Picture this: you're sitting at a coffee shop with your childhood friend. You both have busy lives and seldom get the chance to meet. Instead of checking your phone every few minutes, you decide to be fully present. You listen, you laugh, you share stories from when you were younger. You tell them how much you value their friendship. You don't hold back. And in that moment, you both feel an incredible connection. That’s the kind of richness that can’t be measured or rationed.

Or think about movie nights with your family. Instead of just watching, you make it special. You bring out snacks, make a cozy blanket fort, and really engage with each other. You laugh at the funny parts, you cry at the sad parts, and you talk about the movie afterward. You’re not just watching a film; you’re creating memories.

So next time you feel the urge to hold back your affection, your appreciation, or your joy—don’t. Give it freely. The best things in life grow when shared. Think of it like planting seeds. The more you plant, the more your garden will bloom. And who doesn’t love a garden full of vibrant, beautiful flowers? Remember, rationing joy is like hiding the sun from a garden. Let it shine, let it flourish, and watch how richly life can grow.