"No puedes encontrar a alguien que no quiere ser encontrado."
— Isabel Allende
Simplified Meaning:
If someone doesn't want to be discovered or reached out to, no matter how hard you look for them, you won't be able to find them. For example, think about a friend who is upset and decides to avoid everyone. They might ignore calls, stay off social media, or even go somewhere they're not easily seen. Even though you try hard to contact them, their efforts to stay hidden will keep you from finding them. This can also apply to situations where people hide their true feelings or thoughts. If a person doesn't want to open up about their problems, it can be tricky to help them because they are not ready to share. Understanding this can help you realize when it's time to give space rather than pushing too hard. Sometimes, the best thing to do is to be patient and wait for the right moment when they are ready to be found or talk. This approach respects their privacy and shows that you care about their comfort and readiness.