"Creo que cuando estás enamorado debes entregarte a tu pareja"

Pouring yourself into your partner when you're in love means giving your all to the relationship. It's about being fully committed, present, and supportive. Loving someone deeply involves making an effort to understand and meet their needs, sharing your thoughts and feelings, and working together through life's ups and downs.

This idea has been around for ages. Think about the classic love stories like Romeo and Juliet, where the characters are all in—sometimes to a tragic extent. But it’s not just about grand gestures. Even in modern times, it's about showing up for the person you love every day, being their rock, and sharing your life with them in a meaningful way.

Imagine you're a busy professional, always on the go. You come home exhausted, but you make time to ask your partner about their day. You listen—not just with your ears, but with your heart. When they’re excited, you share their joy. When they’re down, you offer comfort. This isn’t always easy, especially when you’re tired or stressed. But that's what it means to pour yourself into a relationship. It's about making that consistent effort.

Take a page from my friend Jenna’s book. She’s a nurse with crazy shifts, but she never skips her date nights with her husband, Mark. No matter how tired she is, she shows up. She plans little surprises for him, like his favorite homemade meal or a spontaneous drive to their favorite lookout spot. Jenna’s not just going through the motions. She’s fully present, and you can see how it strengthens their bond.

So how can you apply this in your own life? Start by being mindful. Pay attention to your partner’s needs and feelings. When they’re talking to you, really listen. Put down your phone, make eye contact, and engage. Show appreciation for the little things they do. It could be as simple as a heartfelt thank you or an unexpected note in their lunch bag.

Think of your relationship as a garden. It needs tending—regular watering, a bit of sunshine, and sometimes, a little pruning. You can’t just plant it and walk away. It’s the same with love. You need to nurture it consistently.

Here’s a story that might hit home. Picture this: Alex and Sam have been dating for a couple of years. Lately, Alex has been distant, buried in work, and Sam feels neglected. One day, Sam decides to talk it out. They sit down, and Sam pours their heart out, expressing how they’ve been feeling ignored. Alex listens—really listens—and realizes they’ve taken Sam for granted. From that day forward, Alex makes a conscious effort to be more present. They start having breakfast together every morning, sharing a laugh before heading off to work. It’s a small change, but it makes a big difference. It shows Sam that Alex cares enough to pour themselves into the relationship.

Remember, love isn’t just a feeling; it’s an action. It’s about making that choice every day to be there for your partner, to share your life with them fully. When you pour yourself into someone, you’re not just building a relationship—you’re building a life together.