"Mucha gente, cuando envejece, piensa que tiene que vivir según el calendario."

As we get older, a lot of us start to believe that our lives should be governed by the calendar. We think we need to act our age, whatever that means, and limit ourselves to activities and mindsets that fit into society’s expectations for someone of our years. The core idea here is that age is just a number, and we don’t necessarily have to restrict our behavior or our dreams based on how many birthdays we've celebrated.

This idea probably resonates with a lot of us, especially as we watch our parents or grandparents navigate the later stages of their lives. Historically, society has placed rigid expectations on people as they age. In many cultures, older folks are expected to slow down, retire, and step back. But why should the calendar dictate our joy or limit our adventures? It doesn’t have to. You can be 70 and still take up skateboarding if that’s what excites you.

Let’s take the example of Harriette Thompson. At the age of 92, she became the oldest woman to complete a marathon. Think about that. Most people at her age are told to take it easy, maybe knit a little, and definitely avoid strenuous activity. But Harriette ignored the calendar and followed her passion. She trained hard and ran 26.2 miles. Her story is a vivid reminder that the human spirit isn’t bound by numbers.

So, how do you apply this wisdom in your own life? First, stop thinking of your age as a barrier. Instead of saying, “I’m too old for that,” try asking, “Why not me?” If there’s something you’ve always wanted to do—learn to play the piano, travel the world, start a new career—don't let your age hold you back. Embrace curiosity and pursue those dreams.

Imagine this scenario: there’s a 65-year-old named Tom who’s always dreamed of learning to surf. He’s watched surfers for years but always told himself he was too old. One day, he decides to give it a try. He signs up for lessons and, sure enough, he struggles at first. But slowly, he improves. He finds himself more energized, happier, and more connected to a community of people who share his new passion. Tom ignored the calendar, and in doing so, he found a new lease on life.

The takeaway here is simple. Don’t let society’s expectations—or your own perceived limitations—dictate how you live your life. If something excites you, go for it. Age is just a number. And you don't have to live by the calendar.