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"العمى أمر خاص بين الشخص والعيون التي ولد بها"

Jose Saramago
Jose Saramago Novelist
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This is all about the intensely personal nature of our limitations and challenges. Think about it: everyone has their own struggles that are woven into the very fabric of who they are. It's not something you can easily share or even fully explain to others. The things you grapple with—whether physical, emotional, or mental—are yours alone to understand deeply.

Historically, blindness has often been used as a metaphor for all sorts of personal trials. In the context of this quote, it's not just about physical blindness but about any intrinsic challenge that shapes our daily lives. Perhaps this was said to underscore that while people can empathize or try to help, they can never truly know what it's like to live in your skin, to see (or not see) through your eyes.

Let's look at a real-life example. Imagine a professional pianist who slowly starts losing their hearing. The world might offer sympathy and support, but no one else can experience the profound, personal agony of not being able to hear the music they've devoted their life to. This isn't just about the physical loss of hearing; it's an intimate struggle that alters their identity and how they connect with their passion.

So, how do you apply this insight? Start by recognizing that everyone you meet is carrying some kind of invisible burden. Be kind and patient. When you’re dealing with your issues, remember that it's okay to keep some struggles to yourself. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your pain or challenges. Learn to navigate your journey with self-compassion, and give yourself permission to handle your struggles privately.

Imagine you're at a family dinner. Your cousin, who’s always been the life of the party, suddenly seems withdrawn and quiet. You might be tempted to pry or push them to open up. Instead, take a step back and offer a listening ear without pressing for details. They’ve got their reasons, and sometimes, just knowing someone cares is enough.

Or, think about your own life. Maybe you’re dealing with anxiety. It’s not something that shows up as a cast on your arm or a bandage on your leg. It's an internal battle, often fought in silence. You might not want to tell your coworkers why you’re not up for after-work drinks or explain to your friends why you sometimes cancel plans last minute. And you don't have to. Your struggles are your own—private and personal.

This isn't about shutting people out; it's about acknowledging that some battles are meant to be fought solo. It’s your right to keep certain parts of your struggle close to your chest. People can support you without fully understanding your experience.

In the end, remember—we’re all dealing with something. So let’s treat each other with a little extra kindness and a lot more understanding. After all, everyone’s got their own "blindness" to cope with.
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