"ای کاش این اتفاق در زمان من نیفتاده بود اما همه کسانی که چنین زمان‌هایی را تجربه می‌کنند چنین آرزویی دارند اما تصمیم‌گیری در مورد آن با آن‌ها نیست تنها تصمیمی که باید بگیریم این است که با زمانی که به ما داده شده است چه کار کنیم"

Here's the thing: sometimes, life throws us into situations we never signed up for. The core idea behind this quote is about accepting the hand we're dealt and making the best of it. It's a call to focus on what we can control—our actions and responses—rather than lamenting the circumstances we find ourselves in.

This particular line comes from J.R.R. Tolkien's "The Lord of the Rings." Gandalf says it to Frodo when Frodo is struggling with the heavy burden of bearing the One Ring. The historical context here is a fictional epic, but the message resonates deeply in real life too. Imagine being thrown into a world-altering adventure when all you wanted was a quiet life in the Shire. That's where Frodo finds himself, and that’s where many of us find ourselves in our own real-life narratives.

Take, for example, the story of Malala Yousafzai. She didn't choose to live in a region where girls' education was under threat. She didn't wish to be targeted and shot by the Taliban. Yet, faced with these dire circumstances, she decided to stand up and make a difference. She used the time and opportunities she had to advocate for education and women's rights globally. Malala could have easily succumbed to self-pity or rage, but instead, she chose to act with courage and purpose.

So, how can you apply this to your own life? First off, recognize that feeling overwhelmed by your circumstances is natural. But it’s essential not to dwell on that frustration. Focus on the choices you can make right now. Maybe you're in a job you hate, or you're going through a rough patch in your personal life. Instead of getting stuck in the "why me?" mindset, ask yourself, "What can I do about it?" It might be taking small steps towards a new career, seeking advice, or simply deciding to change your attitude.

Here’s a relatable scenario: imagine you’re a college student, and the pandemic hits. Suddenly, your dreams of a typical college experience are shattered. No in-person classes, no parties, no campus life. You could spend the entire time mourning what you’ve lost, or you could pivot. Maybe you start an online study group, or pick up a hobby you never had time for. Perhaps you decide to volunteer, helping those who have it even worse. The key is to find ways to make this time count, despite the circumstances.

Think about the small choices you make daily. They add up. Embrace this idea next time you’re faced with an unwanted situation. Decide to take a step forward, however small. It’s all about focusing on what you can do, rather than what you can’t.

In the end, it’s not about the times we find ourselves in, but how we navigate through them. You’ve got the power to decide what to do with the time you have. Make it count.