"没有什么条件是一个人不能适应的，特别是如果他看到周围的每个人都以同样的方式生活。"

Humans have an incredible ability to adapt to their circumstances, no matter how difficult they might seem at first. It's like how you eventually get used to the noise if you move to a busy city — at first, it's overwhelming, but over time, it just becomes part of the background. When the people around us are living in the same way, it makes the adjustment even smoother, because it normalizes the experience.

Historically, this idea has been illustrated in many contexts, but one of the most poignant examples comes from the experiences of people during wartime. Think about the lives of those who lived during World War II. They faced extreme conditions — food shortages, air raids, loss of loved ones — yet they adapted. They found ways to carry on with their daily lives, finding moments of joy and normalcy amidst the chaos. This wasn't because the conditions were any less harsh, but because everyone around them was experiencing the same thing. The shared experience made it a bit easier to bear.

Let me give you a more modern example. Take someone moving to a new country for work. Imagine Sarah, who relocates from a small town in the Midwest to bustling Tokyo. At first, she's overwhelmed by the language barrier, the crowded trains, and the unfamiliar food. But she sees her colleagues and new neighbors living their lives, navigating the same crowded trains, and enjoying the food she finds so strange. Slowly, she starts to adapt. She learns some basic phrases in Japanese, finds her favorite local restaurant, and eventually, she starts to feel at home. The fact that everyone around her is living the same way makes it easier for her to adjust.

So how can you apply this wisdom? First, remember that adaptation takes time, but it will happen. Don’t get discouraged if things feel difficult at first. Observe how others manage their routines and challenges. It can be incredibly helpful. Second, immerse yourself in the community; shared experiences can be incredibly comforting and provide a sense of solidarity. Engage with those around you, and you’ll likely find that your new normal becomes just that — normal.

Now, think about a relatable scenario. Imagine you're starting a new job. The first week is overwhelming. There are new systems to learn, office dynamics to figure out, and you’re convinced everyone else has it all together. But then you notice your colleagues. They too had to learn those systems and they once felt out of place, just like you. Over time, you pick up on the office lingo, you find your rhythm, and it all starts to click. You get used to the pace, the expectations, and it all becomes second nature. It’s comforting to see that everyone else has been there too, and it gives you hope that you’ll get there as well.

In the end, it all comes down to the power of human resilience and the influence of shared experiences. We’re incredibly adaptable creatures, especially when we’re not alone in our circumstances. So, next time you find yourself in a tough spot, remember that it’s okay to feel out of place at first. Look around, take solace in the fact that others are navigating the same waters, and trust that you’ll find your way.