"همه انسان‌ها برای یکدیگر ساخته شده‌اند؛ بنابراین یا آنان را بهتر آموزش دهید یا با ایشان مدارا کنید."

The idea here is that people are fundamentally interconnected. We all share a human bond and because of that, we have a choice: we can try to help others improve, or we can accept them as they are. It's about acknowledging our shared humanity and deciding how to respond to the people around us.

This quote comes from Marcus Aurelius, a Roman emperor and philosopher, who wrote it in his "Meditations". He was a stoic, which means he believed in practicing virtue and wisdom, and accepting the natural order of things. When he said this, he was emphasizing the importance of understanding and tolerance in human relationships.

Now, think about a teacher in a classroom. This teacher has a diverse group of students, each with their own strengths and weaknesses. Some struggle with math, others with reading, and a few have trouble just sitting still. The teacher could get frustrated and scold them, but instead, they choose to either help the students improve by giving extra support or accept their struggles and patiently work with them.

Imagine you're at work and a colleague is constantly missing deadlines. It’s easy to get annoyed and think they’re just lazy. But hold on – what if you took a step back? Maybe this person is dealing with personal issues or they’re overwhelmed with their workload. You could offer to help them manage their time better, give them a few tips, or cover for them when needed. Or, you could just accept that they have a different working style and find a way to work around it. Either way, you’re choosing a path that fosters understanding and harmony rather than conflict.

So, how can you apply this idea in your life? Next time you feel frustrated with someone, pause and think about the quote. Ask yourself if there's a way you can help them improve. Can you offer advice, or show them a better way? If that doesn’t work, or if it’s not your place to teach them, maybe just try accepting them as they are. Everyone has their own struggles and sometimes a little tolerance goes a long way.

Imagine a scenario: You and a friend are planning a trip. You’re meticulous – everything's got to be booked, planned, and scheduled. Your friend, on the other hand, is super laid-back and last-minute. It drives you nuts. But instead of getting angry, you decide to help them see the benefits of planning ahead. Maybe you show them how much money you saved by booking flights early. Or, if they’re not interested, you accept their style and just make sure you handle the bookings. You adapt, and you both enjoy the trip.

In the end, it’s about choosing connection over division. We’re all in this together. Whether you decide to teach or to bear with someone, you’re acknowledging that bond and making life a little bit better for both of you.