"وقتی صبح از خواب بیدار میشوی، به خودت بگو: مردمی که امروز با آنها سر و کار دارم، فضول، ناسپاس، متکبر، ناصادق، حسود و ترشرو خواهند بود."
— Marcus Aurelius
Simplified Meaning:
Imagine you start your day knowing that some people you meet might be rude or mean. They might try to interfere in your business, not appreciate your help, show off, lie, envy what you have, or be in a bad mood. By expecting these behaviors, you're preparing yourself mentally. For example, at work, if a colleague acts annoying or ungrateful, you'll be less surprised and better equipped to handle it calmly. You're not letting their bad behavior ruin your day or your mood because you anticipated it. This way, you stay focused on your own actions and responses, rather than getting upset by others. Ultimately, it’s about staying composed and not letting negative people affect your happiness or productivity.
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Emotional intelligence Mindfulness Perspective Philosophy Resilience Self-awareness Self-discipline Self-improvement Stoicism
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