"避けられない事態に直面したときは、親しい人と共に過ごすべきです。"

The idea here is about dealing with situations that you can’t change. It’s about shifting your perspective and adjusting your attitude when you’re up against something that’s just not going away.

Think about it like this: Imagine you’re stuck in a traffic jam. You can’t magically make the cars disappear or the road clear up. It’s inevitable. So, what do you do? Instead of raging at the wheel and getting all worked up—which won't change a thing—you decide to turn up your favorite podcast or call a friend (hands-free, of course). You make the best of the situation by changing how you experience it.

The quote might remind you of times in history when people had no choice but to adapt. Think about the Great Depression. People faced economic challenges that were out of their control. They couldn’t just wish away the financial hardships. What did they do? They got creative. They started bartering, growing their own food, and finding ways to entertain themselves and their communities without spending money. They couldn’t change the economic climate, but they changed how they dealt with it.

Let’s bring it into a more personal, modern-day setting. Picture a young professional named Alex who’s just found out that the company they work for is going through massive layoffs. Alex’s job, unfortunately, is going to be part of those cuts. It’s a done deal—inevitable. Alex could spend the next couple of weeks in dread, feeling bitter and anxious. But instead, Alex decides to get relative. They start networking actively, brush up their resume, and even take a few online courses to upskill. By the time the layoff happens, Alex is not only prepared but actually excited about the new opportunities ahead.

So, how can you put this wisdom into practice? Start by recognizing when you’re up against something you just can’t change. It might be a health diagnosis, a job you didn’t get, or a relationship that ended. Rather than fighting against the reality, look for ways to adapt your mindset. Ask yourself: “What can I control in this situation?” Focus on that. It might be your reaction, your future plans, or simply finding small joys in your day-to-day life.

Here’s a little story to illustrate the concept. Picture a family planning a big outdoor wedding. They’ve dreamed of this day for months, but as fate would have it, the forecast predicts a massive storm. The rain is inevitable. Now, they could let this ruin their spirits and stress out about every raindrop. Or, they could get relative. They rent a big, beautiful tent, hand out colorful umbrellas to guests, and turn the event into a whimsical, unforgettable celebration. Sure, it wasn’t the sunny day they imagined, but they danced in the rain and created a day even more special than planned.

Life throws curveballs. We can’t control everything—but we can control how we react. So next time you’re faced with the inevitable, remember this: change your perspective, and you can change your experience. It’s all about getting relative when you can’t change the situation itself.