"من حقیقت را می‌گویم نه آنقدر که می‌خواهم بلکه تا حدی که جرأت دارم و هر چه پیرتر می‌شوم کمی بیشتر جرأت می‌کنم"

As we get older, we often find ourselves becoming more comfortable with honesty. This quote is all about the journey of speaking the truth. When we're younger, we might hold back due to fear of judgment or upsetting someone. But as we age, our confidence grows, and with it, our willingness to say what we truly think.

Think about your own life. Remember when you were a kid and would sometimes tell white lies to avoid getting into trouble? You might've said you did your homework when you hadn’t or claimed you didn’t break that vase. As you grew older, you started realizing that honesty, while sometimes tough, often leads to better outcomes. You learned that speaking the truth can make relationships stronger and life simpler.

Take, for instance, a manager at work. When they first start, they're probably quite cautious. They might sugarcoat feedback or avoid addressing issues directly. They don’t want to ruffle any feathers or come across as harsh. But as they gain more experience, they realize that clear, honest communication—while it might sting initially—helps everyone improve. It’s better for the person receiving feedback to know directly what they need to work on rather than navigate through vague comments.

If you’re looking to apply this wisdom in your own life, start small. Practice being honest in low-stakes situations. If someone asks for your opinion on a movie, share what you genuinely think instead of just agreeing with the majority. Gradually, try to bring this level of honesty into more significant conversations. It's like building a muscle—over time, it gets easier and you get better at it. And remember, being honest doesn’t mean being hurtful. There's a way to convey your truth with kindness and empathy.

Imagine you’re at a coffee shop with a friend who’s been making a lot of excuses for why they haven't been pursuing their passion for painting. They've got the talent and the desire, but they’re always saying they're too busy or not good enough. You might’ve been nodding along sympathetically for a while, not wanting to push too hard. But today, you decide to share your truth because you care. You tell them, “Look, I think you’re amazing at painting. But I also think you’re holding yourself back with these excuses. What if you just dedicated a little time each week to it?”

This kind of honesty might make your friend stop and think. It could be the gentle nudge they need to start making changes. And in the end, they’ll probably appreciate your honesty more than if you’d just kept nodding.

So, how do we bring more truth into our lives? Start by listening to that little voice inside you that knows what’s real. Speak up, even if it’s just a bit at first. And remember, the more you do it, the easier it gets. Just like our friend at the coffee shop, sometimes people need to hear the truth to move forward. And sometimes, that person is you. So dare a little more each day, and watch how your world changes.