“We love those who hate us as much as we are hated by those who love us”
— Mokokoma Mokhonoana
Simplified Meaning:
Sometimes, we can have complicated feelings about people, and they can have complicated feelings about us. Imagine a situation where you really try to please everyone in your life. Some people may appreciate and love you for your efforts, but others might not like you as much, maybe due to jealousy or misunderstanding. For example, think about a famous celebrity. They have devoted fans who love them a lot, but they also have critics who criticize and dislike them equally strongly. The emotions people feel can be quite strong whether they are positive or negative. The quote highlights this balance of emotions; as much as you are loved, you are also likely to be disliked by others. It's a reminder that no matter how hard you try, you can't make everyone happy. So, instead of worrying about who dislikes you, it's better to focus on the positive relationships and not let the negativity of others bring you down.
