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"من لیستی از چیزهایی که در مدرسه به شما یاد نمی‌دهند درست کرده‌ام. به شما یاد نمی‌دهند که چگونه کسی را دوست داشته باشید. به شما یاد نمی‌دهند که چگونه معروف باشید. به شما یاد نمی‌دهند که چگونه ثروتمند یا فقیر باشید. به شما یاد نمی‌دهند که چگونه از کسی که دیگ"

Neil Gaiman
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So, the main idea here is that there are some things—important things—that we just don't learn in school. We're taught math, science, history, and all those academic subjects, but when it comes to the really big stuff in life, like relationships, dealing with emotions, or handling life's ups and downs, we're left to figure it out on our own.

This quote might've been said by someone reflecting on their own education and realizing that, despite all the classes and exams, they weren't prepared for the real, messy parts of life. It's a bit of a lament about the gaps in our education system.

Let's take love, for instance. Imagine you're head over heels for someone. School taught you algebra and the periodic table, but it didn't teach you how to communicate your feelings without sounding like a nervous wreck. You learned the stages of photosynthesis but didn't get a class on how to handle heartbreak or how to keep a relationship strong.

Now, picture this: you're a young celebrity who just hit it big. You're rolling in money, but fame is a whole new beast. You’ve got paparazzi following you, and everyone has an opinion about your life. No one prepared you for this. In history class, you learned about famous people, but no one taught you how to handle being the center of attention without losing your mind.

Or think about the other end of the spectrum—being poor. It’s not something we read about much in textbooks. Managing on a tight budget, dealing with the stress of financial instability, or even just finding happiness despite financial hardship—these are life skills that can make or break you, but they’re not on any curriculum.

Now, let's bring it closer to home with a relatable story. Imagine your best friend calls you up and tells you they’re moving across the country because their partner got a job offer they couldn’t refuse. You’re happy for them, sure, but also heartbroken that your closest friend is leaving. School didn’t teach you how to handle this mix of emotions or how to say goodbye without feeling like you're losing a part of yourself.

So, how do you apply this wisdom? It starts by recognizing that when it comes to the nitty-gritty of life, you’ve got to be proactive in seeking out the lessons yourself. Talk to people who've been there. Read books that dig into real human experiences. Don’t be afraid to mess up and learn from it. For example, if you're struggling with a breakup, reach out to friends, find a good self-help book, or even see a therapist. The point is, don't expect to have all the answers just because you did well in school.

And hey, don't beat yourself up for not knowing everything. None of us do. Life is about learning as you go. So, when you face something that school didn’t prepare you for, take a deep breath, and remember that it's okay to learn on the fly. After all, the most important lessons are the ones we live through, not the ones we read about in textbooks.

So next time you find yourself in one of life's uncharted territories, remember this: it's all part of the journey. You're not supposed to have it all figured out. And that’s perfectly okay.
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