"不要复仇。如果可以的话，尽量避开你的敌人。不要寻求战胜他们。如果命运让你遇到他们，那就好。如果没有，就让他们自作自受。"
— Neil Gaiman
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When someone hurts you or treats you badly, don't try to get back at them. Instead of spending your time and energy on revenge, just stay away from those people. You don't always have to win against them or show that you are better. If you happen to cross paths with them again naturally, that's fine. But if life keeps you apart, let them deal with their own problems by themselves. For example, if a coworker is always rude to you, don't waste your energy trying to make them look bad in return. Focus on your work and success, and let their own negative actions come back to haunt them without your intervention. This approach helps you stay calm and focused on your own growth, rather than being caught up in negative cycles of conflict.
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