"عندما تقلل من قيمة ما تقوم به فإن العالم سيقلل من قيمة من تكون."

When you don’t recognize the worth of your own actions and contributions, others will mirror that perception and fail to appreciate your true value. It’s a straightforward idea: the way you see yourself sets the tone for how others see you. If you don’t hold your head high and believe in what you do, why should anyone else?

Think about a time in history when this idea played out vividly. During the early 20th century, women were fighting for their right to vote and be recognized as equal participants in society. They had been undervalued for so long that the world didn’t see their full potential. It wasn’t until suffragettes like Susan B. Anthony and Emmeline Pankhurst stood up, valued their voices, and demanded to be heard that the world began to recognize their worth. Their self-belief paved the way for monumental changes.

Now, let’s bring it closer to home with a real-life example. Picture a young artist, Mia. She’s incredibly talented, but she’s constantly comparing her work to others and finds herself lacking. At exhibitions, she’s hesitant to talk about her art, often downplaying her skills. What happens? People walk by her work, barely giving it a glance. But one day, she decides to change her mindset. She starts speaking confidently about her art, sharing the inspiration behind each piece. Suddenly, people take notice. They start to appreciate her work, and soon, she’s selling her art and gaining recognition.

So, how can you apply this wisdom in your life? Start by taking stock of your achievements. Write them down. Celebrate even the small victories. When you talk about your work or your passions, do so with confidence. Don’t shy away from highlighting your strengths. It’s not about arrogance; it’s about honest self-appreciation.

Imagine this scenario: you’ve been working at your job for a few years now. You’ve consistently met your targets, even gone above and beyond. But when it’s time for performance reviews, you’re hesitant to showcase your accomplishments. Your boss might not see the true extent of your capabilities. Now, flip the script. You go into that review ready to share your successes, the projects you’ve led, the problems you’ve solved. Your boss sees your value clearly and you’re in line for that promotion you’ve been eyeing.

It’s all about perception. If you see yourself as valuable and worthy, others will too. Think of it like this – you’re at a farmer’s market, you’ve got a stand selling homemade jams. If you mumble your prices and don’t look customers in the eye, they might walk away. But if you’re enthusiastic, offering samples with a smile, talking about how you source your fruit locally and use grandma’s secret recipe, people will not only buy – they’ll come back for more.

In a nutshell, own your worth. Speak up. Don’t let self-doubt dull your shine. When you value yourself, the world can’t help but follow suit.