"مقدار الرجل يتحدد بما يفعله بالسلطة."

When you really get down to it, the heart of this quote is all about character. It's not about how much power someone has, but how they use it. Power can be a magnifier—bringing out the best or the worst in a person. The real test of who you are, then, is revealed when you have the ability to influence outcomes, control resources, or affect the lives of others.

Historically, this idea has been around for ages. Think back to ancient times—Marcus Aurelius, the Roman emperor and philosopher, often reflected on similar themes. Even though he had immense power, he constantly reminded himself to be humble and just. He believed that true greatness comes from using power wisely and ethically. But let’s not get too lost in history. Think of recent leaders like Nelson Mandela. After spending 27 years in prison, he emerged not with a thirst for revenge, but with a commitment to unity and reconciliation in South Africa. He had the power and, instead of using it destructively, he chose a path that benefited everyone.

Let’s take a more everyday example—imagine you're a manager at a company. You’ve got the power to make decisions that affect your team’s workload and their job satisfaction. How you exercise this power speaks volumes. If you use it to micromanage and push endless overtime, your team will likely become resentful and burnt out. On the other hand, if you use your position to support your team, recognize their efforts, and help them grow, you'll foster a positive work environment. People will look up to you, not because they have to, but because they want to.

So, how can you apply this wisdom in your life? Start by thinking about the power you hold. Maybe you’re a parent, a teacher, or even just someone who's seen as a leader among friends. Reflect on how your actions impact others. Are you using your influence to build people up or tear them down? Make a conscious effort to use your power to create positive change. It’s about being mindful of the responsibility that comes with power and striving to act with integrity.

Now, picture this. You’re at a family gathering and your younger cousin looks up to you. They hang on to every word you say. One day, they come to you for advice about a problem at school. You’ve got the power to shape their perspective. You could dismiss their concerns or tell them to toughen up. But instead, you listen, offer thoughtful advice, and share your own experiences. This small act of kindness and support can have a huge impact on them. They learn that they can trust you and, more importantly, they learn the value of empathy and understanding.

In the end, it’s not about the power itself, but what you do with it. Whether you’re leading a nation, managing a team, or simply being a role model to someone, the true measure of your character is revealed in those moments. Remember, every action counts. So, let’s use our power wisely and make a difference in ways that truly matter.