"در این ازدواج سه نفر بودیم بنابراین کمی شلوغ بود"

The quote really cuts to the heart of what it feels like when there's an unwanted third party in a relationship. Imagine you’re sharing an intimate dinner with your partner and suddenly, an uninvited guest pulls up a chair and starts eating off your plate. That's exactly what’s being conveyed here. It's about the intrusion, the feeling that another person—real or metaphorical—is wedging themselves into a bond meant for two.

Princess Diana famously said this during an interview in 1995 when speaking about her troubled marriage with Prince Charles. She was referring to his ongoing affair with Camilla Parker Bowles. This wasn't just a personal admission; it was a bombshell that reverberated across the world. Diana's raw honesty shed light on the pressures and heartbreak she endured, exposing the complexities and frailties within the supposedly fairytale royal marriage.

Now, let’s bring this concept down to earth with a real-life scenario. Think about a friend of mine, Sarah. She was in a long-term relationship, but her partner, Jake, had a very close "friend" named Emily. While Jake assured Sarah that Emily was just a friend, Emily seemed to be everywhere—at dinners, on trips, even in constant text communication. Over time, Sarah couldn't shake the feeling that their relationship was more than platonic. It ate at her, causing arguments and tension. Eventually, Sarah discovered there was indeed more to Jake and Emily’s relationship, and it led to the dissolution of what once seemed like a strong partnership.

For those who find themselves in similar situations, here’s some advice. Communication is key. If you feel a third party is encroaching on your relationship, talk about it openly with your partner. Don't let doubts fester. Set boundaries that both of you can agree on. But also, trust your instincts. If something feels off, it probably is. You deserve to feel secure and valued in your relationship.

Imagine yourself in a scenario where you’re at a party. You’re having a great time with your partner, laughing and dancing. Suddenly, someone starts monopolizing your partner's attention. They’re engaged in a deep, exclusive conversation, and you’re left standing alone on the dance floor. Your initial reaction might be to brush it off, but as the night goes on, this third wheel doesn’t leave. You start feeling sidelined and awkward. The night that started so well now feels like a strain.

This concept isn’t always about infidelity. It can be about work, hobbies, or even family members taking up more space than they should in your relationship. The key is balance. Ensuring that while you both have your lives, the primary focus remains on nurturing your bond.

In relationships, it’s crucial to protect your space—making sure it’s a sanctuary for just the two of you. Whether it’s an intrusive person or an overwhelming external factor, acknowledging and addressing it head-on can make all the difference. After all, a marriage (or any relationship) is ideally a duet. And no one likes an unwanted background singer stealing the spotlight.