"اگر به خاطر اینکه خورشید از زندگیت رفته است گریه کنی، اشک‌هایت نمی‌گذارند که ستاره‌ها را ببینی"

When life throws us a curveball, it can be easy to get caught up in what we've lost, rather than focusing on the opportunities that still exist. This idea of shifting perspective is at the heart of the quote. It's about recognizing that even when something beautiful or important to us disappears, there's still beauty to be found elsewhere if we allow ourselves to look for it.

Think about it: this sentiment has been relevant throughout history. People have always faced loss—be it through the death of a loved one, the end of a significant relationship, or the failure of a cherished dream. The quote reminds us that dwelling too much on what’s gone can blind us to new possibilities and joys that are right in front of us.

Let's get real with an example. Picture a young woman named Sarah, who's just gone through a tough breakup. They'd been together for years, and she genuinely thought they were going to spend their lives together. Naturally, she's devastated and spends days in her room, crying and feeling miserable. During this time, she misses a friend's birthday, doesn't notice the job opportunity her colleague mentioned, and completely forgets about the hobby she used to love—painting. Her tears, both literal and metaphorical, prevent her from seeing the stars.

Eventually, Sarah's friends manage to pull her out of her funk and take her to a painting class—just to get her out of the house. It’s there she meets new people, rediscovers her passion for art, and even stumbles upon the job listing her colleague mentioned, which turns out to be an incredible opportunity for her. Slowly but surely, Sarah realizes that while the sun in her life (her relationship) had set, there were so many stars (new possibilities and joys) she’d been missing out on because she was too busy crying.

So, how do you apply this wisdom in your own life? Start simple. When something doesn’t go as planned—whether it’s a minor setback or a major heartbreak—give yourself time to grieve. Don’t bottle up your feelings; it’s okay to cry. But don't get stuck there. Make a conscious effort to shift your focus. Ask yourself, “What opportunities am I not seeing right now?” Maybe it's the chance to reconnect with old friends, pick up a hobby, or dive into a new project.

Try this: the next time you’re feeling down, make a list of three things you’re grateful for or excited about. It could be as small as a sunny day or as big as an upcoming trip. This simple shift in focus can help you start to see the stars, even if the sun has set for a moment.

Imagine a scenario—you're at a coffee shop, chatting with a friend about a tough time you’ve had. You tell them about a job you didn’t get. You were crushed, of course. Felt like your whole career plan was derailed. But then, you mention how that setback pushed you to apply for a different job, something you never would have considered otherwise, and now you love it. The lesson? Sometimes, the stars are hidden until you stop focusing on the sun that’s no longer there.

So next time you’re faced with loss, remember: don’t let your tears blind you to the stars. They’re out there, waiting for you to notice.