"هرگز مرحله حل مسئله را وارد مرحله تصمیم گیری نکنید"

When we say "Never bring the problem solving stage into the decision making stage," we're really talking about keeping a clear line between figuring out what to do and actually deciding to do it. This advice might sound a bit abstract, but it’s all about making sure you don’t get bogged down in details and lose sight of the bigger picture when it’s time to make a choice.

Historically, this idea has been around for a while, especially in fields like business and project management. Think about it—when you’re trying to solve a problem, you brainstorm, consider different options, weigh pros and cons. It's a messy, creative process. But decision making? That’s about picking one path and committing to it. If you mix these stages up, you can end up stuck in analysis paralysis, overthinking every little detail instead of taking action.

Let's bring this to life with a real-world example. Imagine a tech company developing a new app. The problem-solving phase involves brainstorming features, researching competitors, and testing prototypes. This can be chaotic and iterative. However, when it’s time to decide on the final feature set for the launch, they need to move out of the problem-solving mindset. They can't afford to keep debating every feature endlessly. They review the data, make a decision, and go with it. This separation ensures that decisions are made efficiently and the project moves forward.

So how do you apply this wisdom in your own life? Start by recognizing which phase you're in. Are you still exploring possibilities, or is it time to make a choice? If you’re brainstorming, go wild, think about every crazy idea. But once you’ve gathered enough information, switch gears. Set a deadline for decision making, and stick to it. Trust the process you’ve gone through and make your choice confidently.

Picture yourself planning a vacation. The problem-solving stage is all about researching destinations, reading reviews, comparing prices, and dreaming up all the cool things you could do. You might even make a pros and cons list for different locations. But when it’s time to book, don’t let yourself get stuck in a loop of endless options. Decide on a destination and start booking flights and accommodations. If you’re still wavering, you’ll never get out the door!

It’s like when my friend Jake was choosing between two job offers. He spent weeks listing out pros and cons, talking to mentors, and imagining different futures. He was deep in problem-solving mode. But when the deadlines came up, he needed to switch to decision-making mode. He chose the job that felt right in his gut, and guess what? He thrived there. By keeping the stages separate, he made a confident decision without second-guessing himself to death.

So next time you're facing a big decision, remember to separate the creative mess of problem solving from the clear-cut moment of decision making. Trust in your process, and you'll find it easier to make choices and move forward with confidence.