"Siempre tienes dos opciones tu compromiso versus tu miedo"

At its heart, the quote is about the constant battle between what we really want and what we're afraid of. Every decision you make boils down to this tug-of-war. You can either push forward with what you’re committed to, or you can let fear hold you back.

Think about times when you’ve been on the cusp of something big—maybe starting a new job or moving to a new city. You’re excited, but then doubts start creeping in. What if it doesn’t work out? What if I fail? And there it is: the clash between commitment and fear.

Let's rewind to a historical context. Remember the story of Martin Luther King Jr. during the Civil Rights Movement? He faced immense fear—threats to his life and the lives of those around him. But his commitment to justice and equality was stronger. He chose his commitment over his fear, and it led to monumental change.

But this isn’t just about historical figures. Think about a real-life example closer to home. Picture a friend who’s always wanted to start their own business. They’ve got a killer idea, a solid plan, and even the funds to get started. But they hesitate—what if it fails? What if they lose their money? Their fear is almost paralyzing. However, if they decide that their commitment to their dream is more important than their fear of failure, they take the leap. They might stumble, sure, but they’ve taken the first step in making their dream a reality.

So, how can you apply this wisdom in your everyday life? It’s all about perspective. When faced with a tough decision, ask yourself: Is this fear speaking, or is it my commitment? If you can identify what you’re truly committed to, it becomes easier to push past the fear. Break it down: make a list of what you’re afraid of and another list of why you’re committed to this choice. Seeing it on paper can make it clearer.

Imagine you’re sitting at a coffee shop with a friend—let's call her Sarah. Sarah’s debating whether to move to a new city for a job opportunity. She’s scared of the unknown, of leaving her friends and family behind. But she’s also incredibly passionate about this job—it’s everything she’s worked for. You listen to her fears and then you say, “Sarah, every big decision comes with fear. But think about why you want this so much. Is your commitment to your career and personal growth stronger than your fear of the unknown?” She takes a moment, sips her coffee, and you can see her thinking it through. She realizes that yes, her commitment to this opportunity is stronger. And just like that, she’s made her choice.

Life is full of these moments. Next time you’re faced with a decision, big or small, remember the quote. Think about what you’re truly committed to and let that guide you. It’s not easy—fear is a powerful force. But if you let your commitment lead, you’ll find yourself achieving things you once thought were impossible.

So next time you’re at a crossroads, don’t let fear win. It’s your commitment that will take you places.