"People are put into your life for seasons, for different reasons, and to teach you lessons."

Life is a lot like a long, winding road trip, and along the way, we meet all sorts of people. Some stick around for the entire journey, while others are only passengers for a short ride. The core idea here is simple: everyone we meet comes into our lives for a reason. Sometimes, they bring joy, other times, hardships, but they all contribute to our growth—teaching us something valuable.

Now, think about this. You’re in high school—those four years are transformative. You meet friends you think you'll have forever. But then, you graduate, and many of those friendships fade. It's not sad; it’s just how life works. Those friends were part of your life for a season, teaching you about companionship, trust, and maybe even betrayal. They helped shape who you are today.

Let me tell you about my friend Sarah. We met at a job I had a few years back. We clicked instantly—shared interests, same sense of humor, everything. We spent almost every lunch break together and even hung out on weekends. She was there during a tough breakup I went through, offering support and a shoulder to cry on. But then, I got a new job, and our communication dwindled. At first, I felt guilty and a bit sad. But then I realized something: Sarah was in my life to help me through that tough time. Once I was past it, our paths naturally diverged. And that’s okay. She played her part, and I learned a lot from her kindness and support.

So, how do you apply this wisdom in your own life? First, don’t cling to relationships that are naturally drifting apart. Recognize that it’s part of life’s ebb and flow. Appreciate the good times, learn from the bad, and move on. Second, when you meet someone new, stay open-minded. They might be there to teach you something valuable—about yourself, about the world, or about human nature.

Imagine you’re starting a new job in a different city. You don’t know anyone. It’s a bit daunting, right? But then, you meet a colleague who's been living there for years. They show you the ropes, introduce you to the best coffee shops, and invite you to social events. You become good friends. Now, say three years later, you get a promotion that requires you to move to another city. The friendship may not remain as strong, but that doesn't diminish its value. That colleague was there for a season, to help you settle into a new phase of your life.

Life is an intricate tapestry woven with the threads of all our encounters. Some threads are bold, brightly colored, and long, while others are short and subtle, yet they all add to the richness of our experiences. Instead of mourning the loss of connections, cherish what each person brought to your life. It's all part of the grand design.

So next time you wonder why someone has drifted away or why a new person has entered your life, think back to this idea. It’s all about seasons, reasons, and lessons. Embrace each one—because every person you meet is there to help you become the person you're meant to be.