"Instead of resisting to changes, surrender. Let life be with you, not against you."

We all go through times in our lives when things just don’t go according to plan. The core idea of this quote is about embracing change rather than fighting it. It's about aligning yourself with life's natural flow instead of struggling against it. When we resist change, we often create unnecessary stress and conflict. By surrendering to the changes, we learn to go with the flow and, as a result, we can find peace and new opportunities.

Think about it in the context of history. Imagine the ancient mariners who explored uncharted waters. They couldn't control the wind or the sea; they had to work with them. If a storm came, they couldn't just ignore it and continue on their original course. They had to adapt, adjust their sails, and steer their ships in a way that would keep them safe. They learned to surrender to the elements rather than resist them, and that’s how they survived and discovered new lands.

Let’s look at a real-life example. Picture a small business owner who has been running a bookstore for years. Suddenly, a massive online retailer starts offering books at lower prices, and business takes a hit. At first, the bookstore owner might resist this change. He might think, “No, I’ve always done it this way. People will come back.” But as months pass, it becomes clear that the old way isn't working. Instead of continuing to resist, he decides to embrace the change. He starts hosting community events, reading clubs, and offering a personalized customer experience that an online retailer simply can't match. By surrendering to the change and adapting his approach, he not only saves his business but makes it thrive in a new way.

So, how can you apply this wisdom in your own life? Start by recognizing that change is inevitable. When faced with a challenge or a change, take a moment to breathe and then assess the situation. Ask yourself, “What can I learn from this? How can I adapt?” Instead of clinging to what was, look for ways to make the new situation work for you. Be flexible and open-minded. Sometimes, the best opportunities come from the most unexpected changes.

Now, imagine you're at a coffee shop with a friend who's going through a tough breakup. They're devastated because their plans for the future have been shattered. You might say to them, “I know it hurts right now, but maybe this is an opportunity for you to find something even better. Maybe it's a chance to discover more about yourself, to try new things, and to meet new people. You don't have to have it all figured out right now. Just take it one day at a time and be open to what life brings you.”

By sharing this perspective, you're helping your friend see that surrendering to change doesn't mean giving up. It means letting go of resistance and being open to new possibilities. It’s about working with life, not against it. And who knows? That change might lead to something wonderful they never even imagined.

So, next time life throws you a curveball, remember—surrender. Let life be with you, not against you. You might just find that the changes bring you exactly where you need to be.