"Comme on devient audacieux quand on est sûr d'être aimé."

When you know someone loves you, it’s like gaining superpowers. Think about it: when you feel secure in someone’s affection, you start taking leaps you wouldn’t normally consider. It’s that unshakeable confidence, that feeling of being invincible.

This idea has been around forever. It’s the reason kids with supportive parents might seem fearless when trying new things. Imagine a little boy on the playground. When his mom is cheering him on, he’ll climb to the top of the jungle gym with a big grin on his face. He knows she’s there, and that makes all the difference.

A real-life example? Let’s talk about J.K. Rowling. When she was writing Harry Potter, she faced a string of rejections. But she had her daughter and a close group of friends who believed in her. They loved her and believed in her work, which gave her the courage to keep pushing forward. And look where that got her—one of the most beloved book series in history. Without that love and support, who knows if she would’ve kept going.

So how can you use this in your own life? First, surround yourself with people who genuinely care about you. They don’t have to be many—just a few who really get you. When you’re feeling down or unsure, lean on them. Let their belief in you bolster your own.

Second, try to be that person for others. When you love someone, let them know. Your belief in them can be the wind beneath their wings. It’s a two-way street, this love and confidence thing.

Imagine you're working on a big project at work. It’s daunting, and you’re not sure you can pull it off. But then your partner or best friend says, “You’ve got this. I believe in you.” Suddenly, you feel like you can tackle anything. That’s the power of knowing you’re loved. It turns “I can’t” into “I can.”

Here’s a little story to drive it home. Think of a time when you were a kid learning to ride a bike. You were terrified of falling and getting hurt. But your dad or mom was right there, holding the seat and running alongside you. They kept saying, “You’re doing great! I’m right here!” With their encouragement, you pedaled harder, and before you knew it, you were riding on your own. The love and support they gave you made all the difference.

So next time you’re about to embark on something scary or challenging, think about who’s in your corner. Let their belief in you fuel your courage. And remember to be that cheerleader for the people you love. Because when we know we’re loved, we become unstoppable.